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I haven't thought deeply about some dude repeating the same anti-capitalism crap that all of these guys say? Wake me up when he delves into something new, not recycled ideas going back to the 60s. Maybe it's the first time that you've heard it but, trust me, it's not new. People have thought deeply about this subject for decades.yes that video is talking about the issue through principles... you just haven't thought deeply about it. you are just splitting hairs for no reason because your ego cannot allow you to be agreeable here. these ideas are totally new to you.... you've never heard them before, and you are not humble enough to ask questions that might help you understand them.
pretending i have not posted anything these parents do is realy disingenuous.... first of all you haven't asked and second of all its a lie. ive said they keep their kids off of social media to a very large extent. that is pretty much all you need to know when the subject is the damage social media causes lol.... ill add that if there is any time allowed it is in the living room with a parent sitting with them just like any good parent would do with a pg movie...... and the time spent is very limited. i have already shared that they help kids to frame the toxic and sad addictive pop culture that social media promotes and see through it and not be enamored by it. and ive also already said they educate their kids on the damages that social media does to peoples minds/perspectives and point it out when it is displayed by freinds...
ill add that my daughter has been meditating for 20 to 40 minutes twice a day for years and that in itself has caused her to naturally see through pop culture, pop music, corporate manipulation to get a person brand loyal, social media and many other issues that seem to grow only in an unhealthy and thought addicted mind that has lost touch with its natural compassion and gentleness and stillness. this natural depth causes one to see though empty culture, is progressive, and deepens over time, and is equal to the task at hand i think. but i don't think this is a necessary component as lots of the parents i know who have been successful at this have not taught that skill to their kids.
anyway man..... if you want it to be black and white let it be that for you. that's just not my experience.
You had not posted what they do or any decisions that they have made. I don't watch tv to a large extent...which means I do watch tv. What am I watching? How often do I watch? What am I actually doing. Use that an example and then fill in the blanks with parenting decisions and the perspectives from the children on their social experiences.
Try not to be obsessed with pop culture since the impacts of social media on children's social world is not about pop culture. It is about peer acceptance. The associated difficulties in peer acceptance can arise in the Robotics club as easily as they arise around the latest pop song. So, while it's great that people can tune out pop culture, pop culture isn't the issue at hand. That's just the surface shit that people focus on when they don't know that they should be looking deeper.
It's nice that your daughter meditates. It's literally part of the school curriculum where my son attends. Everyone is meditating. It doesn't stop the normal biological and social pressures and changes that kids go through. And so it doesn't stop the development of in-groups and out-groups and the complex process of establishing social hierarchies that are a normal part of the development process as kids enter and exit puberty.
Thus it has no effect on how social media impacts and shapes the formation of those social groups and how kids respond to being accepted or rejected by the social groupings that they aspire to.
It's not about pop culture, it's about complex social hierarchies and how kids respond to those changing hierarchies in the context of their self-image.