Has anyone ever done this? If you use/used facebook or twitter, have you ever just deleted your account for awhile to regroup?
I was working 60 hrs a week this summer, and thought that when school started, I'd just jump right in. I was so antsy to be back in the class room and get reading done that I figured I'd start devouring books.
Instead, I've found it hard to concentrate and get work done. A few days ago I had my fiance change my password and delete my account so I could avoiding dilly-dallying on facebook. Sherdog and twitter aren't such issues for me, but a vast majority of my friends dont live in the same state/country as me, so I use FB quite often to converse, share articles, papers, or whatever else. It's a helpful tool, I was just having a tough time moderating myself for some reason. It's obnoxiously addictive and mindless, which is what I want when I need to read a dense book.
Getting rid of FB has been helpful thus far. Oddly enough, my apartment is cleaner, I'm on my computer less, and I'm getting reading done far easier than I was.
Anywho, has anyone ever done this? Just get rid of the FB or whatever to give yourself some time to get shit done?
It's a time sink, nothing more. People are generally social and like to talk about themselves other people, things they are interested in. Sounds like you're getting ready to spend 90% of your human interaction with your fiancee and losing contact with your single friends.
Social networking doesn't control my life, nor should it control anybody else's life.
Develop some willpower.
Liked and shared.FB is fine is you use it correctly.
Don't accept friend requests from people you don't know. If you've accepted one from somebody who abuses the site or posts too much or only stupid shit, hide their posts from your feed.
Don't "like" any silly business, even if you do like that business. You may looooove the King of Beers, but do you really need to see what Budweiser posts on their FB account? Some may be helpful, like if your gym posts class times or something like that. But for the most part, you don't want to willingly expose yourself to more advertising than necessary.
So, what you're left with is just the people and things you actually care about. I don't care how cool or above the fray you think you are, there is somebody (probably dozens) on Facebook that you DO care to keep in touch with that post relevant stuff on there. Now you simply check your feed when you take a shit and see what's up with this little FB world you've created. It doesn't take long, I can get through a full days worth of posts from my friends/family in about 5 minutes. Maybe 8.
Then if you want to throw a pic on there or some funny quip, knock yourself out. I'd keep that to a minimum though, there's not much to be gained by letting the world know you hate Mondays. Keep your posts half way meaningful.
We should all be friends on fb and never speak to each other.
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Don't accept friend requests from people you don't know.....
"Hello my name is Bob"
"Well Bob... I don't want to talk to you unless I know you. Sorry."
Reminds me of Steven Wright
"My doctor said I shouldn't work out until I'm in better shape."