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Extreme promiscuity is definitely not good for either, but say a 30-year-old man has had a dozen sexual partners, so nothing extreme, that would not bring his status down at all, and most women would probably prefer something in that ballpark and wouldn’t even have a problem if it was a bit more than that.I think that is the clarifying statement. It's(promiscuity) not good for either, but, one side doesn't care about it nearly as much. So why should I be upset for them?? That doesn't make sense.
It absolutely has great negative effects for both sides. I know that for a fact. Guys might not show it immediately, but it does when you notice those man-whores cannot hold down a stable relationship and constantly view females as less than.
Most decent men on the other hand wouldn’t mind if the woman was an outright virgin, and would consider anything more than one or two previous partners as too much.