What if my reaction actually is appropriate for 2014? What if it's a perfectly normal reaction to something that has become a societal norm and YOUR reaction is the outdated one by 10-50 years?
I'll tip my hand a bit on this conversation.
My mom was a doctor my whole growing up years. They had a bunch of kids, my dad was less educated so fell into the househusband role early on. By the time we had grown up he was too old and unemployable to find full-time honorable work. He early on lost all power in decision-making in almost every regard. My mom made selfish, reckless decision after selfish, reckless decision - he was the one who was constantly dependable and responsible and picked up the pieces. This isn't a spin on history, this is what happened.
Consequently, I was never able to relate to the supposed Homer Simpson of the male stereotype like ever in my life. Quite the opposite.
Now, by your response, your background is likely reflected by the opposite.
The fact is, there is a growing number of men in society who have no personal experience with the supposed male-dominated society (or gender inequality in men's favour). We judge each case separately and know from experience that the 1950's feminist case for inequality doesn't work with the broad-brush anymore.
The video I posted showed a woman showing up 3 boys (not grown men, which in any case would still have been douchey unless it was a battle of the bands or drummers or something). It was doubley lame because the down-trodden female in North America stereotype isn't platform worthy anymore (at least not portrayed in a douchebaggery, showing off, narcisstic way).