The point of the post you're referring to (and I've talked to many Muslim women) is that in my experience there is an abrasive almost insulting way in which they communicate with a non-Muslim man. Which IMO has to do with the strict and demeaning subjugation by the Muslim men in their life. Non-Islamic men, then, bear the brunt of this pent-up hurt and angst. I actually feel sorry for them in the sense that it is the ideology spawning this. Further, I'm not saying every single one has the same abrasiveness, but, in my experience, many do. And again, this is just explaining what post you are referring to (and this was more or less explained as such in that post).