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And yet it still doesn't register with these goofs. Pedophiles - including those rampant in christian churches - aren't of that culture. You do not celebrate men by having a sexual interest in, much less molesting children.
There's a bit of a history behind that line of thought.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty_in_ancient_Greece
Generally-speaking, homosexual relationships were formed between a "dominant" male and a "submissive" male. The submissive male was usually much younger, a teenager if not younger than that, in ancient times. Assuming a "submissive" role was no longer deemed acceptable for men over 20 years old, and thus you would have rarely seen two men of the same age partnering with one another, in such times.
There are, even today, plenty of gay "sub-cultures" which follow the pattern, they even have specific terms for these younger, "feminine" gay men. Obviously that doesn't apply to all, but this perception is not helped much by modern mainstream portrayals, with prominent older gay men usually partnering up with much, much younger men. Amongst hedonistic excess, such things as "aging gracefully" are deemed foreign, and eternal youth is worshipped. Whether people like to admit it or not, modern gay culture is surrounded with hedonistic excess, all the statistics point to that, as well as cultural portrayals.
If all you hear of, let's say, Afghanistan, is that there's all these dancing boys, and so forth, a whole culture around that, wouldn't it be fair to say that your initial reactions towards them would be rather guarded, not necessarily knowing the specific circumstances of each Afghan individual? Would you truly find yourself "checking" your language in regards to Afghanistan, just so that you would not offend the sensibilities of those good Afghan men that do not participate in such folly?
The truth is that,in my country atleast, there are teenage boys that are pushed to the forefront as the representatives of gay community, and these teenagers then end up having relations with much older men. It's pretty difficult to discount all that, considering what the inevitable reaction would be, if the same was done by the heterosexual community. A 14-year old girl being together with a 40-year old guy would obviously not be celebrated in any way, shape or form, yet for these "divergent" sexualities it appears that all bets are off, and that laws are merely obstacles constructed by an intolerant heterosexual patriarchy.
That's something that the LGB communities are going to have to figure out, and resist against from within, because obviously the idea of "straight dudes" calling it out, seems to be regarded as too insulting or inconsiderate. But again, as a man, I just cannot discount these sorts of influences within society. I'm going to push back on that as I see fit, even in a heavy-handed way, when necessary.
No man could be expected to do any different.
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