Cheated on my GF.

is there anyway your GF can find out? y/n
have you told anyone else? y/n
do you like Europe? y/n

if you answered 'y' to any of the above, I'd move to Europe asap.
 
Yeah, you may as well break up now. Just like others are saying, she's never going to forget this and likely will never truly forgive you. They will act like they've forgiven you, but they haven't, and that's when they find someone else and tell you to fuck off.

You're in a lose/lose situation. If you told her and she accepted it and things went fine, I'd honestly be amazed.

Unless you hide it from her and she never finds out, your relationship is practically over now. Women don't forget these things and they never truly forgive you. It will always be used against you.
 
It's all going to end badly, whatever you do, so you might as well continue banging the pair of them until the inevitable collapse hits.
 
I've done some investigating and found pics of the ghetto booty chick.

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if you cheat, you probably shouldn't be in that relationship lol. I would never cheat on my gf, it would break her heart and i would never forgive myself, but i wan't to spend my life with her, but im guessing your gf wasn't going to be wife material if you cheated
 
Hades86 said:
Everytime someone admits they have cheated on Sherdog it's a witch hunt burning him at the stake. It's like this forum is filled with angry females. He made a mistake, shit happens.
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I think that's because everyone knows the pain of being betrayed by someone they trusted.

It's one if those subjects that will always strike a personal chord with people
 
Who would have thought a guy with the user name "smellmyfarts" wasn't mature enough to have a fight with his girlfriend without going out and banging some hoodrat he doesn't even like.
 
That209 said:
Women don't forget these things and they never truly forgive you. It will always be used against you.
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This.

If my ex wouldn't let me live down that I ate her goddamn yogurt once, TS' booty expedition would never die.
 
Gotta eject on everything for at least 90 days- Then reset.

Break up with GF. Tell her it's not working. I would also tell her about the extracurricular. Better to hear it from you than another way. Don't be a pussy about it and do it over the phone either. Sit her down and look her straight in the eye.

When you can look someone in the eye and admit a fuck-up of this magnitude, your EQ grows by orders of magnitude afterwards. The reason people fear coming clean is because they fear looking directly at the pain they caused. You will grow from it.
 
grow up you pussy. you cheated once time. big fucking deal.


If the ghetto chick starts talking shit, just act like she is a jealous liar crazy bitch and you "went out" with her once in a weak moment whie you and the gf were fighting, but you never got with her and now that she found out that you have a gf she is making shit up. This should be easy if she is a hood chick since they have very little credibility to begin with. But in all reality you banged this chick once and you owe her nothing.
 
cooks1 said:
Break up with GF. Tell her it's not working. I would also tell her about the extracurricular. Better to hear it from you than another way. Don't be a pussy about it and do it over the phone either. Sit her down and look her straight in the eye.

When you can look someone in the eye and admit a fuck-up of this magnitude, your EQ grows by orders of magnitude afterwards. The reason people fear coming clean is because they fear looking directly at the pain they caused. You will grow from it.
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This works too, but it's overkill for this situation. You dont need to bring out the big guns for one little thing like this.
 
Ippy said:
This.

If my ex wouldn't let me live down that I ate her goddamn yogurt once, TS' booty expedition would never die.
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Exactly.

It could be like 10 years from when you did what ever, and she will bring it up in an argument. "Yeah, well remember that time you ate my yogurt, you fucking prick?" lol. That's how it is. I'm sure most of us know from experience and have had that happen to use at least once.

I fucked up my last serious relationship because I talked to a girl on FB, in a bad way, obviously, and that screwed everything up. I didn't actually go and sleep with someone, but what I did was enough to change things in a negative way. All I did was talk to this girl, which is still bad and I obviously regretted it, but at the time, I had my reason, I guess.

So, it's likely a guarantee that TS's relationship is done with unless he doesn't tell her and she never finds out. No way will she be able to get over the fact he fucked some chick like that. No fucking way will she forgive him and get over it and take him back.

You killed your relationship, TS. It sounds like it was kind of going downhill as it is but what you did was the final nail in the coffin. It's finished.
 
Toastytoy said:
This works too, but it's overkill for this situation. You dont need to bring out the big guns for one little thing like this.
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I am not sure I would consider being unfaithful 'one little thing'.

If your GF got drunk and let some random fuck her, would you consider that a 'little thing'? Is that trivial to you?

A person with a genuine conscience would have a hard time compartmentalizing something like this if they never came clean with it.

You make a decision to lie and conceal every day. So today this guy just cheated on his gf. But tomorrow he did that and lied and concealed. And the day after he will have lied and concealed again.

The conscience can have a ruinous impact on some. Some people are fortunate enough to have little or no conscience. But for those that have them- Do not fuck with them, or they will fuck with you

I had a friend on my wrestling team in HS completely go off the rails after he graduated. He was an honor role student, bright as hell, very switched on. But he got into drugs, dropped out of JUCO, gained almost 100 lbs in 2 years.

I saw him almost unrecognizable late one night collapsed outside a bar a sweaty, drunken, miserable mess. I pulled him up and after he finally put together who I was, I took him to the 'Awful Waffle' for a meal and a coffee.

Looking at him, I started to actually feel anger, and I just looked right at him and asked, 'WTF happened to you dude. Something had to happen to you for you to end up like this.'

He started shaking his head like he didn't know, and I called bullshit, and just told him to tell me what it was.

Turns out that before he graduated, this dude was fucking his little brothers girlfriend for like 4 months. He never told his brother. His brother never found out. And his brother was still dating the chick.

The guilt had literally eaten the dude alive. I said that we should go tell him. Right now. He just shook his head, started crying, and ran off.

I happened to know his little brother, who was on my old HS wrestling team. I dropped in on a practice and asked him how his brother was doing. The guy just immediately looked down all sad and said he was really not doing well at all, no one seems to be able to get through to him. I asked him if he wanted to know why that was? he said Yes. I said are you sure- he said yes. Then I just flat out told him that it was because his bro was fucking his GF for 4 months after they first started dating, he's guilt wracked over it, but he's too scared to tell you.

A few days later, little bro confronted his big bro, finally got it out of him, gave him the ass beating he needed to put it behind him, and dumped his GF.

It took a little while, but once the cat got out of the bag, my boy slowly became something approximating his normal self. If it had not gotten out though, I'm certain he would have died.
 
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If you're willing to break up with the gf over this, then you might as well not tell her and let her find out and then she'll break up with you anyways. At least maybe you can get in a few more bangs in the mean time.
 
That209 said:
Exactly.

It could be like 10 years from when you did what ever, and she will bring it up in an argument. "Yeah, well remember that time you ate my yogurt, you fucking prick?" lol. That's how it is. I'm sure most of us know from experience and have had that happen to use at least once.
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my wife yelled at me one time and said a bunch of shit. like a string of 4-5 things. just trying to be an asshole. one of the things was bitching about the food I had eaten on the one day out of the week that was a cheat day. it was hilarious.

then I said (with a snarky tone) and I quote "you bought oreos the other day. and ate a shit ton of them. those aren't exactly conducive to that perfect body you are trying to achieve."

you would've thought I just tried to stab her in the face with a pitchfork. I still laugh my ass off about that one.
 
equus said:
my wife yelled at me one time and said a bunch of shit. like a string of 4-5 things. just trying to be an asshole. one of the things was bitching about the food I had eaten on the one day out of the week that was a cheat day. it was hilarious.

then I said (with a snarky tone) and I quote "you bought oreos the other day. and ate a shit ton of them. those aren't exactly conducive to that perfect body you are trying to achieve."

you would've thought I just tried to stab her in the face with a pitchfork. I still laugh my ass off about that one.
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Whadda she do?
 
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