Cheated on my GF.

[Lionidas]

The real question is....did she smell your farts?

 

[equus]

So if he does want to stay with his gf, feels horrible about it, won't be repeating the mistake, you still think he should be admitting that he cheated? I just don't see how that is a smart thing to do. Better to live in "cautious optimism" (as the above poster said) and live with his guilt. Use it to not repeat the offence.

Though I definitely consider the STD angle a valid one. If there was no condom usage in the incident then he has to admit it, can't be irresponsible when infectious disease is involved.

So whats the angle when condoms dont stop all stds. Or an oops baby happens 9 months down the road?