Social Adult content creators and male loneliness

Nameless King said:
It's...complicated. I used to 'behave' around women. Watch my every word, even in professional setting I tried to come across as you know 'gentleman/nice guy'. But last few years I just couldn't care less. Unlike incels I don't blame women for the issues I have. I want to help myself but I struggle reaching out for it. I find Onlyfans easier, non-invasive, painless. I would love a real relationship.
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A real relationship is on a different path to what you are on and you need to cut the cord and change direction. The most difficult part will likely be the start.

You need to address this whilst you are still somewhat young and still have sexual market value. Granted men's sexual market value lasts longer or is timed different to men's but you don't want to end up in relationships with women drastically younger than you.

If you keep on your present path you will be in a pit of comfort and will likely not ever get out and spend most of your (one) life missing out on possible real relationships, experiences and family for what is basically a VR type fantasy.
 
If you are only 38 go join a martial arts gym and work on your fitness.
Or maybe try a Yoga or Pilates class.
It will at least drag you out of the house so you spend less time staring a screen, that saps your energy.
 
Also can OP answer something about Onlyfans subscriptions? Why subscribe when you can just get the content for free? Is it the interaction? I am assuming they text or message you? There must be some acknowledgement like with live streamers?
 
Well if you didn't develop game in highschool or college/university or found love online chances are it's going to be more difficult in adulthood or the workforce.

This doesn't just hold true in romantic relationships but also in friendships. It appears that social circles are smaller and smaller if you're actually part of them at all. The feeling of loneliness is only compounded by comparing yourself to other lives you see online.
 
Nameless King said:
Adult content creators and male loneliness - both of these goes hand in hand.

The latter is fuelling the former. But what is fuelling the latter?

Loneliness and emotional connection. Often single, introverted and socially isolated individuals will opt for this type of... entertainment/engagement? You call it.

And I'm one of them, single, introverted and socially isolated beta boy. And by the looks of it I'm just a drop in the ocean. Adult entertainment market is valued today at $172 billions which is expected to grow to $248 billions by 2030. Big numbers. Myself alone I can easily spend a half to 70% of my wages on that stuff each month. Lots of my friends which are alphas experience increased difficulty in dating lately and funny enough one of them actually blamed people like me for that, for fuelling this trend and indirectly encouraging more women to follow. (I'm quite open with my friends about these matters).

A lot of women are increasingly more picky as well as social media creates an image of a gym toned body guy with expensive car and a lot of women see it as a benchmark. You can probably as well recall a lot of women posting pictures saying 'know your worth, don't settle for less'. Not that I want to blame women but then again if men didn't faced such dating issues then realistically I guess men would spend much much less on stuff like that. Myself I mostly pay for personalised videos from adult content creators as it helps me cope mentally with loneliness and I do accept that I'm part of the problem.

But then again, what else is there left for me?
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Don't be so hard on yourself. About 90% of women become mothers, but less than half of men become fathers. The odds are against you and always have been.

I wasn't really aware that things have always been this way until I read some Dostoevsky. His short stories and novels cover your predicament from every angle. You can read his entire works online. I think that White Nights would be a perfect short story for you to start with, if you are interested.

 
Takes a lot of balls to post that.
Bravery is an "alpha" quality. You're more than just a sad simp, it's not too late to pull yourself together.


Everytime you go online for depravity, watch the above vid, bookmark it. Spending money to master bate in front of a computer screen is fucked. You can do better if you want to.
 
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Don't give up but lay off the porn. I'm an introvert as well but it's just a matter of stepping out of your comfort zone and meeting new people or hanging out with a buddies friend who might have a single friend as well. If you are funny, that's one of the best ways to get people to lower their walls and yours as well. Anything you are particularly good at? Brag that shit up, talk about what you do for a living or any skills you might have. When you start thinking about all this, it's not hard to talk to people, especially women. Being in decent shape doesn't hurt either. Good luck to you brother!
 
Nameless King said:
It's...complicated. I used to 'behave' around women. Watch my every word, even in professional setting I tried to come across as you know 'gentleman/nice guy'. But last few years I just couldn't care less. Unlike incels I don't blame women for the issues I have. I want to help myself but I struggle reaching out for it. I find Onlyfans easier, non-invasive, painless. I would love a real relationship.
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I don't know how much 50% of your wages are and you don't need to share. But start putting some of that money aside and go have some professional fun.
 
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Go get your bloods checked. One that includes your test levels. If you can afford to, look into getting TRT if it's low. If it's normal, then great. As a man, our whole point of being on earth (in my opinion) is to find a mate and reproduce. Do you have/or want kids? Also, another issue is too many guys are looking for the ideal woman. I used to be a regular porn watcher for years up until earlier in the year. I realised that I'm subconsciously looking for women to be of the physical standards of the porn stars I was watching, which is just illogical because the majority of women don't look like that. I was hiring sex workers for a period of time as I thought that would fill some kind of void, but ultimately it led to me feeling empty inside.

I actually got into pickup when I was much younger. I tried to read the book "The Game" but couldn't get through much of it. I then discovered "Daygame" which was approaching women in public spaces. I tried approaching women that way and I got mixed reactions, but I never encountered a negative reaction. I did meet women that way, but it wasn't easy. It was much better than sitting swiping on a dating app, though. I also gained a lot more confidence and ability to converse with random people, especially women.
 
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