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Social Adult content creators and male loneliness

Brampton_Boy said:
You rely on pornography because it is convenient and low/no risk. Go outside of your comfort zone and spend energy on meeting people.
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Good women are plentiful, but they're not located in the comfort zone of your home.

Nameless King said:
I want to help myself but I struggle reaching out for it.
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Reaching out to yourself hasn't, and won't ever, help. Seriously, talk to someone.
Nameless King said:
Adult content creators help me cope mentally with loneliness.
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Coping with loneliness is conquered by socializing with new people IRL.
Nameless King said:
I would love a real relationship.
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You'll soon have real relationships by getting out and meeting others with similar interests.

Best of luck, it's a brand new year. You got this friend, you deserve your best life. :)
 
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Dogpound2020 said:
And they wonder why their wives cheat on them. I’m having sex with a married woman right now and it’s merely just revenge as she managed to find his onlyfans subscriptions. Live by the sword.
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Thinly veiled "had sex!" right there haha
 
the amount of money going to porn should be zero, no matter your circumstances.
ZERO.
even if you can't help it, there's free porn everywhere.
when you're paying for porn you're being a double loser.
one that wastes his life with porn, and another that wastes his money on it.
don't take this as an attack. but if you simply can't help it, at least don't put money in it.
 
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Brampton_Boy said:
You and I are almost the same age (I'm 40), and I can honestly say that dating is the easiest it has ever been...... in part because socially isolated men feel that woman are unattainable.

You presume that woman are superficial and extremely discerning. The reality is, most woman in our age group are just waiting for a decent guy to come along. I have single female friends that routinely complain about men not being more assertive or even available.

This advice is going to sound cliche, but you need to fix yourself and feel like you are deserving of a relationship. You rely on pornography because it is convenient and low/no risk. Go outside of your comfort zone and spend energy on meeting people.
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Not wrong tbh. I’m early 30s and the friends in my age range just want a normal fucking guy. This is apparently difficult to find. They post dude’s tinder profiles and good god, so many guys posting red flags galore just within a dating profile. If they find a seemingly normal profile it just goes downhill in the DMs. Get pass the DMs then everybody has that ghosting problem.

That’s online, sure. Real life seems to be no better because men are either too pussy to approach (you can argue women should approach then, but if a man can’t take that step he’s just not the kind of man a gal wants), or you meet a guy and hit a landmine of fuckery.

But, people tend to be broken. So what can you do? Wade through it until you find somebody good I guess. Or don’t bother (me, I don’t bother).
 
Fox by the Sea said:
the amount of money going to porn should be zero, no matter your circumstances.
ZERO.
even if you can't help it, there's free porn everywhere.
when you're paying for porn you're being a double loser.
one that wastes his life with porn, and another that wastes his money on it.
don't take this as an attack. but if you simply can't help it, at least don't put money in it.
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This. I can't believe idiots pay for porn. Maybe i am an enigma, but i don't get off on watching the same chick do whatever turns me on twice. Its like a rubber, you use it once and throw it away, and use a new one.
 
Nameless King said:
You get customized content. You telling them what you want and they make personalized video for you with your name mentioned. You can also call them live, they charge like $10 a minute or so.
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$600 an hour just to talk to you? I think a shrink would be cheaper... or a hooker...?
 
Kardashians said:
Not wrong tbh. I’m early 30s and the friends in my age range just want a normal fucking guy. This is apparently difficult to find. They post dude’s tinder profiles and good god, so many guys posting red flags galore just within a dating profile. If they find a seemingly normal profile it just goes downhill in the DMs. Get pass the DMs then everybody has that ghosting problem.

That’s online, sure. Real life seems to be no better because men are either too pussy to approach (you can argue women should approach then, but if a man can’t take that step he’s just not the kind of man a gal wants), or you meet a guy and hit a landmine of fuckery.

But, people tend to be broken. So what can you do? Wade through it until you find somebody good I guess. Or don’t bother (me, I don’t bother).
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What's a "normal" guy? What's a "normal" woman?

The definition changes wildly, depending on who you ask.
 
Nameless King said:
You get customized content. You telling them what you want and they make personalized video for you with your name mentioned. You can also call them live, they charge like $10 a minute or so.
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I have a content suggestion. Have them wink their butthole while singing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star.
 
aerius said:
One of the above options is why a dorky looking guy like me is married to a woman who'd normally be way out of my league.
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I know two couples like that and while they kinda florish when they are younger (man usually in his 40s and woman 20s to early 30s, the resentment will come out being longer together with the wife now being legally protected its more like watching a horror show when they get old. Its a business relationship; sex and being together for money. One wonders why there wont grow a deep love out of these situations. The men are delusional very long about that and then wonder why they get divorced when something better comes around, or getting robbed, or just stay together getting miserable in old age.


Being single seems the much more peaceful solution than that.
 
No matter how lonely men are spending money on nudes when free porn is available is simply undefendable. Theres no logical basis for that decision. None.
 
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ferrisjso said:
No matter how lonely men are spending money on nudes when free porn is available is simply undefendable. Theres no logical basis for that decision. None.
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It's not about logic that's the whole point because it's not porn they are looking for but emotional attachment and they get that by engaging in paid chats with the women after getting close watching their material. It creates an emotional bond they so miss in their lives and its what makes them so easy to manipulate. They pay for the attention the get.
 
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