Social Adult content creators and male loneliness

[Nameless King]

Adult content creators and male loneliness - both of these goes hand in hand.

The latter is fuelling the former. But what is fuelling the latter?

Loneliness and emotional connection. Often single, introverted and socially isolated individuals will opt for this type of... entertainment/engagement? You call it.

And I'm one of them, single, introverted and socially isolated beta boy. And by the looks of it I'm just a drop in the ocean. Adult entertainment market is valued today at $172 billions which is expected to grow to $248 billions by 2030. Big numbers. Myself alone I can easily spend a half to 70% of my wages on that stuff each month. Lots of my friends which are alphas experience increased difficulty in dating lately and funny enough one of them actually blamed people like me for that, for fuelling this trend and indirectly encouraging more women to follow. (I'm quite open with my friends about these matters).

A lot of women are increasingly more picky as well as social media creates an image of a gym toned body guy with expensive car and a lot of women see it as a benchmark. You can probably as well recall a lot of women posting pictures saying 'know your worth, don't settle for less'. Not that I want to blame women but then again if men didn't faced such dating issues then realistically I guess men would spend much much less on stuff like that. Myself I mostly pay for personalised videos from adult content creators as it helps me cope mentally with loneliness and I do accept that I'm part of the problem.

But then again, what else is there left for me?

 

[Osculater]

Adult content creators and male loneliness - both of these goes hand in hand.

The latter is fuelling the former. But what is fuelling the latter?

Loneliness and emotional connection. Often single, introverted and socially isolated individuals will opt for this type of... entertainment/engagement? You call it.

And I'm one of them, single, introverted and socially isolated beta boy. And by the looks of it I'm just a drop in the ocean. Adult entertainment market is valued today at $172 billions which is expected to grow to $248 billions by 2030. Big numbers. Myself alone I can easily spend a half to 70% of my wages on that stuff each month. Lots of my friends which are alphas experience increased difficulty in dating lately and funny enough one of them actually blamed people like me for that, for fuelling this trend and indirectly encouraging more women to follow. (I'm quite open with my friends about these matters).

A lot of women are increasingly more picky as well as social media creates an image of a gym toned body guy with expensive car and a lot of women see it as a benchmark. You can probably as well recall a lot of women posting pictures saying 'know your worth, don't settle for less'. Not that I want to blame women but then again if men didn't faced such dating issues then realistically I guess men would spend much much less on stuff like that. Myself I mostly pay for personalised videos from adult content creators as it helps me cope mentally with loneliness and I do accept that I'm part of the problem.

But then again, what else is there left for me?

 

[Kowboy On Sherdog]

 

[aerius]

But then again, what else is there left for me?

Mail order bride. I hear there's a lot of hotties available from the former Soviet nations.

You can also try an arranged marriage if your culture has that tradition.

Or if all else fails, there's some countries in the Caucasus region and central Asia which still practice marriage by kidnapping. Apparently, if you can kidnap a woman and escape from the angry villagers for a certain number of days, you are then automatically married or something like that.


One of the above options is why a dorky looking guy like me is married to a woman who'd normally be way out of my league.

 

[Spam On Rye]

Stop watching porn. It makes men weak and makes women whores. Get off of the internet. This is the male version of women's body dismorphia from reading to many cosmopolitan magazines and watching Sex and the City.

 

[ColemanwastheGOAT]

Time to get help.

You sound like every alcoholic/drug addict I've known.

Everyone jacks off. But for some people, it becomes a life destroying habit. The same way alcohol or drugs or gambling or over-eating does for some people.

You've identified that you have a problem. Now go get some help for it.

 

[Ladder Master]

Looks like True Forced Loneliness still exists.

Where is Dwaye Holloway when you need him.

 

[Nameless King]

Looks like True Forced Loneliness still exists.

Where is Dwaye Holloway when you need him.

'still'?

You just had an opportunity to look into mind of one of the individuals. And how many more are there

 

[Legumes]

50 to 70% of your income? What the absolute fuck? Is that disposable income or are you barely scraping by because of paying these internet whores?

 

[Striker Fox]

Mail order bride. I hear there's a lot of hotties available from the former Soviet nations.

You can also try an arranged marriage if your culture has that tradition.

Or if all else fails, there's some countries in the Caucasus region and central Asia which still practice marriage by kidnapping. Apparently, if you can kidnap a woman and escape from the angry villagers for a certain number of days, you are then automatically married or something like that.

One of the above options is why a dorky looking guy like me is married to a woman who'd normally be way out of my league.

This might be more depressing than the OP tbh

 

[Sobek]

Porn isn't good for anyone long term and you sound addicted.

Did you lose your desire to be around women by watching porn or did you turn to porn after that desire was destroyed by lack of success with women?

It is dangled in front of you like a low hanging fruit when you are starving.

You'll probably even notice animals that previously had to scavenge or hunt for food will often cease to if they are fed to excess by a person. They no longer need to or have the desire to hunt.
They may not be happy or 'living' though.

 

[ColemanwastheGOAT]

'still'?

You just had an opportunity to look into mind of one of the individuals. And how many more are there

Go on reddit and check out female dating strategies.

It's basically female incels. They have all the same insecurities as male incels and they all have the same problem.

It's not that you can't find a mate. It's that the potential mates you can attract don't meet your standards.

The solution to that is simply to work on yourself and get yourself to a point where you can attract someone who does meet your standards.

For most incels, that just means cleaning up your diet, exercising four to five times a week and making some platonic friends of both sexes.

That's how most people irl find someone - through their friends. Join a casual softball team, go out for beers afterwards. There will be single women on the team or women with single friends on the team. That's how you meet someone.

Make friends, make connections. Women come easily after that.

Go to church. Church is full of single women and women with single friends. Most churches have singles events.

It's all right there in front of you, you're not going to find it sitting in your basement jacking off.

 

[Versez]

Adult content creators and male loneliness - both of these goes hand in hand.

The latter is fuelling the former. But what is fuelling the latter?

Loneliness and emotional connection. Often single, introverted and socially isolated individuals will opt for this type of... entertainment/engagement? You call it.

And I'm one of them, single, introverted and socially isolated beta boy. And by the looks of it I'm just a drop in the ocean. Adult entertainment market is valued today at $172 billions which is expected to grow to $248 billions by 2030. Big numbers. Myself alone I can easily spend a half to 70% of my wages on that stuff each month. Lots of my friends which are alphas experience increased difficulty in dating lately and funny enough one of them actually blamed people like me for that, for fuelling this trend and indirectly encouraging more women to follow. (I'm quite open with my friends about these matters).

A lot of women are increasingly more picky as well as social media creates an image of a gym toned body guy with expensive car and a lot of women see it as a benchmark. You can probably as well recall a lot of women posting pictures saying 'know your worth, don't settle for less'. Not that I want to blame women but then again if men didn't faced such dating issues then realistically I guess men would spend much much less on stuff like that. Myself I mostly pay for personalised videos from adult content creators as it helps me cope mentally with loneliness and I do accept that I'm part of the problem.

But then again, what else is there left for me?

50% of your income ??? God Damnit, do something man. OF is a cancer and weak men or simps if you want to call them like that do not help at all, it create a depressed, depraved society, a society start to downfall starts when normalizing those bad behaviours. Values and people do not keep these things private anymore. Those things should not be normalized.

 

[Nameless King]

50 to 70% of your income? What the absolute fuck? Is that disposable income or are you barely scraping by because of paying these internet whores?

I got all bills, essential payments set on first day after payday. This way everything is being taken care of first thing and then I can do whatever I want. I got well paid job so money isn't much of an issue. Although I had difficulties earlier when some of the bills where all over the month and there was a situation where I missed payment.

 

[Don Quixote]

I’d get outta the house. If you can, put yourself in positions you can meet new people and build relationships, not just with women but with anyone you can.

 

[Versez]

I got all bills, essential payments set on first day after payday. This way everything is being taken care of first thing and then I can do whatever I want. I got well paid job so money isn't much of an issue. Although I had difficulties earlier when some of the bills where all over the month and there was a situation where I missed payment.

Stop this, this is destroying your future and project that you could do by putting money aside each month, for example, that 50% you put into OF whores could be put in a sp 500 stock market funds. And if i was you i would think of leaving Reddit...this place is an echo-chamber...you will think that there are a lot of people with the same problem but its just an illusion, the real world is not like this.

 

[Michaelangelo]

Lots of my friends which are alphas experience increased difficulty in dating lately and funny enough one of them actually blamed people like me for that, for fuelling this trend and indirectly encouraging more women to follow.

lol at the gigachads resting their blue balls on your forehead

 

[Nameless King]

Did you lose your desire to be around women by watching porn or did you turn to porn after that desire was destroyed by lack of success with women?

It's...complicated. I used to 'behave' around women. Watch my every word, even in professional setting I tried to come across as you know 'gentleman/nice guy'. But last few years I just couldn't care less. Unlike incels I don't blame women for the issues I have. I want to help myself but I struggle reaching out for it. I find Onlyfans easier, non-invasive, painless. I would love a real relationship.

 

[Versez]

It's...complicated. I used to 'behave' around women. Watch my every word, even in professional setting I tried to come across as you know 'gentleman/nice guy'. But last few years I just couldn't care less. Unlike incels I don't blame women for the issues I have. I want to help myself but I struggle reaching out for it. I find Onlyfans easier, non-invasive, painless. I would love a real relationship.

How old are you ?

 

[Nameless King]

How old are you ?

38