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Ok so this Weinstein situation has created or outed some pretty polar ideas on what constitutes non consensual or bullying in a sexual relationship with your wife, girlfriend or someone you are dating.
I am shocked by guys like @snakedafunky and @Kframe having views that any attempt to change the mind or convince your wife, girlfriend, date into sex when they might say no or they are not in the mood is akin to rape.
They do not accept that there are not just different types of women but also that there are different situations. I've been with women who are super aggressive sexually and if for instance I came home grumpy from work and not in the mood she would quickly set about getting me in the mood and changing my mind because she could see i need the stress relief and vice versa.
so what say you sherbro's, have things changed this much that if you come home and your gal says I am not in the mood and you persist, tease and flirt to get her in the mood that, that is somehow abusive or her just relenting out of pity as Kframe says? Can a man or woman not be won over and not only participate willingly but also be glad you persisted and it being one of the more passionate exchanges you have?
i tell ya, if most people agree with those guys then I guess things have changed a ton and Im glad I am older and did not spend my youth in a time where guys were afraid to show they were really into a gal before she may have felt the same and to try and convince her based on that passion.
That is the correct word, and is never appropriate in a sexual relationship.
So one forum poster is strawman-ing another posters point?
I, am shocked.