Why does she never text me first?

Danis_champ said:
I have known this girl for few months now. We got to know each other accidentally through Facebook. I have never met her irl but she has seen pics of me. When I text her first we always have long interesting funny conversations but what bothers me is that she never texts me first. What to think of it? Should I move on?

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Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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The truth is that if she was interested she’d respond, my friend.

Your interest in her is probably increased because she isn’t easily accessible and you have to chase her. The chase is fun but only for a short period, if you’re still chasing after that she’s not really interested in you.

Move on. You don’t lose anything by moving on, because you can’t lose what you don’t already have.
 
Send her a dic pic followed by 'thoughts?'

If you're going to go out, go out swinging.
 
Danis_champ said:
Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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She dont think she worth it
In the mirror she dont think she perfect
Late night on the net she be surfin
Lookin for a surgery to purchase

Mmmmmmmmmmmm shit I think she fine though
But if thats what she wanna do its fine though
She gon be a 10 either way
I wouldnt have her any other way oh

She sophisticated, educated, but thoughts of self doubt are perpetuated
She look in the mirror and get devastated Why? She say I wont understand, cause I am a man, Baby its alright lets take a trip to the sand, I dont give a fuck if your titties dont stand, I dont give a fuck if your lips kinda thin, you are still a 10, let me come in, get rid of your friends, let me come in tonight
 
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Danis_champ said:
I have known this girl for few months now. We got to know each other accidentally through Facebook. I have never met her irl but she has seen pics of me. When I text her first we always have long interesting funny conversations but what bothers me is that she never texts me first. What to think of it? Should I move on?

(sneaky)EDIT

Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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She's obviously not interested.
 
Danis_champ said:
Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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Dude, she is not interested in you as anything but a friend. It wouldn’t matter if her mom was in prison and she was homeless. If she wanted to go out with you, she would have said yes. She just found a way to let you down easy. You have been friend zoned. Just stop texting her.
 
Is this guy a fucking troll or just really young? Because it only took me until I was 18 to realize a chick like this was not into me.
 
She is talking to other guys. She finds you entertaining, but not romantically interested. Focus your energy somewhere else.
 
Find some contrived but not so obvious way to get you guys to interact in a social setting. Then tease her a lot in a lighthearted way that makes her feel a little embarrassed but also intrigued at the same time. Many girls aren't used to this. They are more used to overly arrogant men or white knight soy boys who suck up to them.
 
Really like her

Never met her

Really like her

Never met her

Really like her

Never met her

Doesnt want to meet because she needs to sort her life out
 
JC Komo said:
His name is Jon, he's a plumber.
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Next time on catfish....


Face time or Skype “her”

Have dick out hard and see how she reacts. Tell her either she comes and gets it or another chick is.

She either runs to you or you get a restraining order. Either way you have a clear picture of what’s up and can move forward.

Win win
 
Because she knows you're a dillon danis fan.

And also you suck

also, she does no like you and doest not want to break you and make your life more pathetic (considering you're a danis fan it's a given you suck and are a loser)
 
Turtlejuice said:
Really like her

Never met her

Really like her

Never met her

Really like her

Never met her

Doesnt want to meet because she needs to sort her life out
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Aka has a boyfriend that’s shes thinking about breaking up with and hasn’t pulled the trigger yet and looking at options first.


Run for the fucking hills.
 
Danis_champ said:
I have known this girl for few months now. We got to know each other accidentally through Facebook. I have never met her irl but she has seen pics of me. When I text her first we always have long interesting funny conversations but what bothers me is that she never texts me first. What to think of it? Should I move on?

(sneaky)EDIT

Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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Get used too it champ

Its just how women are nowadays

The whole game flipped when iphones and social media came out

You need to adjust your mentality now

Girls basically wait for guys to come to them, its how they are conditioned to be

They have so many ways to get dick

My advice? Focus on your goals, and women will naturally follow
 
Danis_champ said:
I have known this girl for few months now. We got to know each other accidentally through Facebook. I have never met her irl but she has seen pics of me. When I text her first we always have long interesting funny conversations but what bothers me is that she never texts me first. What to think of it? Should I move on?

(sneaky)EDIT

Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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Do something like this.
Doesn't have to be exact, but basically make it sound like you're past her.
You say something like "Hey this dancer/model(anything that sounds like the girls attractive) wants to go to this event, you can probably roll with us if shes coo with it"
Immediately you'll skyrocket in her mind.
Because you are showing that you talk to other attractive women, so you really don't need to talk to her and your also showing that she can be discarded.

I was at a party fuckin up this girls name over and over again, not on purpose, and it seemed to only bring her closer. Why? Because she didn't have a guy crawling all over her feet like usual, but instead had a guy who felt her unimportant enough to remember her name, which wasn't true, but I simply kept thinking her name was something different. But it worked.
Some of those piece of shit type of things work with women.

If every guy is putting down his fuckin coat in a water puddle to step over, you need to be the guy who walks right by and doesn't give a shit about it.

If every guy has a yellow shirt, the guy with the purple shirt will draw her attention more.

She also could be catfishing you.
 
By the way there is no thing as "Friend Zone"
Only guys who don't talk to women think there is a friend zone.
There isn't. You think no girl has ever fucked one of her friends before when she was drunk and in the dumps?
 
Let's simplify it for you TS.

Scenario 1: She is passive as fuck: There is a possibility she is simply not used to be the initiator.
Scenario 2: She is simply not that into you: Sorry bro, but this is a distinct possibility.
 
GordoBarraBJJ said:
Because she knows you're a dillon danis fan.

And also you suck

also, she does no like you and doest not want to break you and make your life more pathetic (considering you're a danis fan it's a given you suck and are a loser)
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Have I fucked your girlfriend or something? Who did bite you ma' man? You sound angry. Perhaps it's you who's having problems?

Anyway I really appreciate posts I already liked. Some great opinions.

No message from her yet. Still waiting and probably die waiting. I guess I have to accept the L.
 
DeJulez said:
By the way there is no thing as "Friend Zone"
Only guys who don't talk to women think there is a friend zone.
There isn't. You think no girl has ever fucked one of her friends before when she was drunk and in the dumps?
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You're not wrong, but there's also something to be said about women finding it easier to be themselves around a guy that they arent interested in.

Same goes for men too. We all change our behavior a little bit when around someone we are attracted too.

So it can be easier to be friends with people who you aren't interested in in that way.
 
Drain Bamage said:
You're not wrong, but there's also something to be said about women finding it easier to be themselves around a guy that they arent interested in.

Same goes for men too. We all change our behavior a little bit when around someone we are attracted too.

So it can be easier to be friends with people who you aren't interested in in that way.
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Yea, but if they aren't interested then I don't think they would even be around.
If I'm not interested in a girl, I won't even talk to her unless its like at work or something but im never gonna text her or try to hang with her or anything of that nature, and I think the same goes with women.
If you're around a woman or shes always talking to you, it means that she has enough interest to keep you around incase something else goes awry
 
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