Why does she never text me first?

jgarner said:
Any man that needs to study another man's books to have game is on the top ten list of cuck losers.
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What Corey Wayne teaches works. I think it's silly not to consider other people's advice because of some rule you've invented for yourself about how you need to forge your own path... but do what makes you happy.

Personally, I think you sound insecure. Why bring up the pejorative 'cuck loser' out of the blue unless you're projecting the feelings of low self esteem you have for yourself? Does your rule apply to other areas? Is one a cuck loser for taking a martial arts class to learn to fight or reading a book to learn other fields of study? Get the fuck outta here with that bs.

Consider swallowing your pride and looking into coach Corey. Women are complex creatures and a mystery to many dudes. He helped me understand women and can do the same for you.
 
Danis_champ said:
I have known this girl for few months now. We got to know each other accidentally through Facebook. I have never met her irl but she has seen pics of me. When I text her first we always have long interesting funny conversations but what bothers me is that she never texts me first. What to think of it? Should I move on?
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Because you're ugly
 
bad mojo said:
The ugly truth about women is that the only thing they really fall for are men who sincerely don't care. Nature has give them much sharper intuition, so it's next to impossible playing games with them in a long run. Once the woman knows you like her, you're done. If you're a good looking dude ( and all Sherbros are ) you'll get enough of them to the point you become immune to pussy. Once you've reach that state, they will come to you begging. In meantime, get ready to suffer. Don't text her first, ever, see what happens.
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CodeBreaker said:
Turn the tables around. Don't text her.

It worked for me in the past, most of the time.
She'll eventually text you, and ask how were you doing lol
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Over pursuing women turns them off. Guys who are high value don't need to chase. State your interest and intent from the get go, try to set a date, and leave it at that.
 
Robocok said:
Over pursuing women turns them off. Guys who are high value don't need to chase. State your interest and intent from the get go, try to set a date, and leave it at that.
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I would rather covertly show interest, by complimenting her, casually holding hands, spending time together, asking her questions that show my intent etc. Gently guide the interaction to your bedroom.

Overtly stating "I like you and want to be with you, let's have a relationship", especially too early can really kill attraction, from my experience, and destroy the buzz of the interaction. Unless she overtly brings it up.

This is partly, why I don't feel guilty about shagging multiple women at the same time. I just don't give a f**k.
 
Robocok said:
What Corey Wayne teaches works. I think it's silly not to consider other people's advice because of some rule you've invented for yourself about how you need to forge your own path... but do what makes you happy.

Personally, I think you sound insecure. Why bring up the pejorative 'cuck loser' out of the blue unless you're projecting the feelings of low self esteem you have for yourself? Does your rule apply to other areas? Is one a cuck loser for taking a martial arts class to learn to fight or reading a book to learn other fields of study? Get the fuck outta here with that bs.

Consider swallowing your pride and looking into coach Corey. Women are complex creatures and a mystery to many dudes. He helped me understand women and can do the same for you.
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Corey Wayne is good. His videos on YouTube are funny, his reactions and facial expressions crack me up.

There is a book called "The Rational Male", by Rollo Tomassi, it's a good read, too.
 
Goonerview said:
I would rather covertly show interest, by complimenting her, casually holding hands, spending time together, asking her questions that show my intent etc. Gently guide the interaction to your bedroom.

Overtly stating "I like you and want to be with you, let's have a relationship", especially too early can really kill attraction, from my experience, and destroy the buzz of the interaction. Unless she overtly brings it up.

This is partly, why I don't feel guilty about shagging multiple women at the same time. I just don't give a f**k.
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Relationship talk early on will turn a lot of women off. It shows that you're unsure you can do better and want to lock her down. It's better to hang out, have fun, hook up, and let a relationship be her idea.

What I'm talking about is letting her know from the get go that you find her stunning and would like to date. It avoids ambiguity that can lead to friendzoning. I prefer to find out early if they're in or they're out so as not to waste time.

If you play it right then after anywhere from 1-8 weeks she'll be the one to bring up the relationship talk.
 
If she’s not willing to text first she’ll never initiate sex first..move on.
 
Robocok said:
Relationship talk early on will turn a lot of women off. It shows that you're unsure you can do better and want to lock her down. It's better to hang out, have fun, hook up, and let a relationship be her idea.

What I'm talking about is letting her know from the get go that you find her stunning and would like to date. It avoids ambiguity that can lead to friendzoning. I prefer to find out early if they're in or they're out so as not to waste time.

If you play it right then after anywhere from 1-8 weeks she'll be the one to bring up the relationship talk.
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Yeah, I agree.

I think of it more as the "vibe" you are putting out.

There is "friendship" vibe. I.e. Talking about bullshit, purely platonic conversation, no eye contact, sending endless text messages Etc.

Then, there is "lover" vibe. Which is compliments, touching, asking the right questions, flirting, setting the date near my house. etc.

If I'm into the girl, I'm going with lover vibe. If she responds well, then there is hope. If she pushes back, then she probably ain't feeling it.
 
M
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Stop fussing over this nonsense.
 
All this fretting over some chick you’ve never even met in person...

At least meet her in person before wasting your time and hers.
 
I've been here before, which guy hasn't? As much as it hurts for me to say it if she's not texting first then you're not her first option. Somehow they're never too busy to text this guy - even texting him first! It sucks, man.
 
I have no interest in texting women. A girl from my work texted me like 2 months ago asking if I was busy, I just replied "Yes, im busy". She got angry and said some shit and I ignored her.

I am a nice guy but im very cold towards advances. I just say im not interested even if I am. I dont want the headache. I dont want the drama. For the rest of my life I decided no more pets, no more girlfriends, no situations where stress is possible. Maybe im a little scarred from all the stress ive been through, but im done with people. Its nice never having to worry about things I used to worry about all the time.
 
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dude, take the L and move on, there are tons of women out there
 
Well, one of you two has to be the man and initiate meeting up.
Hopefully you figure it out soon enough.
 
"Im here to drink coffee and pound your v, and im almost out of coffee."
90 50 said:
Tell her to grab a Starbucks after work, while in line straight Trump Style Grab her by the Pussy and tell her you are gonna fuck when the coffee is done.
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You're already in the e-friend zone so you may as well move on. If you complete your second conversation without setting up a casual meet (coffee, walk in the park etc) then you're done. She's talking to you because you're convenient and it will never be more for her.
 
Move on from what?


You don't have anything.















With that dude.
 
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