Why does she never text me first?

She is probably a he.
 
NewS said:
You don't want teh sex either?
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Tinder, but thats a headache too. I want it but not sure if i care enough to go after it anymore. I might have to talk to her, invite her over, talk to ger some more, etc. Fuck all that.
 
Don't text her first.

If she doesn't text, don't worry about it and move on.
 
Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
 
The funniest things about this thread is people take advice from a guy called Corey.
 
Danis_champ said:
Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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She isn't interested in you.

You need to accept it.
 
Danis_champ said:
Okay some clarification for you all.

She is 22 and lives with her mother. The girl and her mother have money problems but she never asked me money or help at all. She is not a gold digger or a whore.

Don't call me a pussy..I straight asked the girl out few weeks ago. She said she "can't" then I asked why and she said "I have to sort my life out" or something like that. I'v tried to call her out around the corner since then at least two or three times but she never gives me a straight answer. She lives in the same area and meeting wouldn't cost anything.

I really like her and don't want to lose her. Sure I have other options too but she is my first pick right now.

Maybe some girls aren't confident enough to start texting? That's my last hope

If she is not interested I would expect boring one or two answer words but no we have long conversations. It's been 12 hours since we last spoke. I'm gonna give her a chance to initiate this time. Let's see how this plays out. I feel like I have done everything I could.
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You don't want to loose her? You haven't even hang out, and if she already denied your advances for hanging out, don't contact her ever again.

There's so many other woman out there, why waste your time?
 
She is probably busy texting another guy or friends. You're not high on her priority list.
 
probably because you reek of desperation. Counting the hours? the fuck? have you ever dated a girl before? Give her some space ffs.
 
Haven't read the posts, but if i wonder about something i just ask. Ask her!
 
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Replace all those bayonets with dicks


Thats why she's not responding
 
Goonerview said:
I would rather covertly show interest, by complimenting her, casually holding hands, spending time together, asking her questions that show my intent etc. Gently guide the interaction to your bedroom.

Overtly stating "I like you and want to be with you, let's have a relationship", especially too early can really kill attraction, from my experience, and destroy the buzz of the interaction. Unless she overtly brings it up.

This is partly, why I don't feel guilty about shagging multiple women at the same time. I just don't give a f**k.
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Instead of holding hands, let her hold your dingdong
 
Goonerview said:
I would rather covertly show interest, by complimenting her, casually holding hands, spending time together, asking her questions that show my intent etc. Gently guide the interaction to your bedroom.

Overtly stating "I like you and want to be with you, let's have a relationship", especially too early can really kill attraction, from my experience, and destroy the buzz of the interaction. Unless she overtly brings it up.

This is partly, why I don't feel guilty about shagging multiple women at the same time. I just don't give a f**k.
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Covertly show interest.

Casually hold hands.

Your intent.

Yeah, there are heads in your freezer.

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Loiosh said:
Covertly show interest.

Casually hold hands.

Your intent.

Yeah, there are heads in your freezer.

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Nah.

Just overtly telling a girl "I like you" before she has had time to like you/build feelings for you, kills attraction.

But, at the same time, you don't want to be too "friendship vibe" and too platonic ... she might think you just ain't interested/too shy.

Imo, it's better to "show" your intent. By what you say to her, the way you look at her, etc.
 
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Goonerview said:
Nah.

Just overtly telling a girl "I like you" before she has had time to like you, kills attraction.

But, at the same time, you don't want to be too "friendship vibe" and too platonic ... she might think you just ain't interested.

Imo, it's better to "show" your intent. By what you say to her, the way you look at her, etc.
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