Where did I say anything about being "soft", "dummie"? You get the current conditions at the border when you put dumb asses like yourself in charge of complicated issues.
Addressing and fixing the issue of immigration, migration, corruption, and border security has nothing to do with being "hard" or "soft". This is how children and retards solve problems. "Derp, go harder" isn't going to fix immigration or border security.
It doesn't matter how sad I feel for them, or "hard" you go, because so long as the conditions in their "shithole" countries are what they are, the risk will be worth it for them to come.
This stupid idea that people are just going to roll over and die, let their wife and kids die, because of border laws, is retarded. If their options are death in shithole, or take a chance at asylum, they're going to go with option 2.