I was a fan of TOS probably before you were born. Every Sunday morning at 10 AM on channel 6 CBC as I was growing up. I read all the books, saw all the cartoons, played all the games, including the RPG and SFB, the tactical fleet simulator game (I can still remember the BPV for a Klingon B110 BC, he Enterprise of a Federation CC at 126 BPV). I remember sitting at a bar with a friend and we wrote down almost 70 of the titles of the episodes from memory.
By the time TNG started, I was in college and didn't spend time watching television. I made an effort to watch at first, but it was such a let down, it wasn't worth the time. The same was true for every series following until Discovery. I was too busy for television. What's more, I didn't really like what Star Trek had become, much like several people in this thread. And truthfully... They all started off poorly. All of them. Including TNG. I was not thrilled with kids on the Enterprise.
My point was, I never sat around and complained about how the new shows didn't measure up, even though they didn't. Also, over time, I came to realize that they were better than I originally thought.