Some people don't seem to understand that you need time if you want to improve your position. You're already in a bad spot and then ref tells you do something if not he's going to stop the fight. Yes, that would make sense if the other guy was getting clean shots on you, but in Faber's case he wasn't getting punched, he was blocking them with his hand and arm.
So of course he wanted to stay a bit in that position to recover fully and work from there, but Herb never gave him that chance. Actually Herb wasn't even close to stopping the fight, only after Barao gave him that look and told him to stop it, he started talking to Faber and that's when Faber gave him a thumbs up. Well anyway that is my opinion, that's what I saw.
Refs should never get influenced by a fighter. And it seems to me a lot of times they do. Like fake groin kicks, eye pokes and stuff like that. Refs should make their own judgements and not get urged by the fighters.
That's why I like John McCarthy, he tells them "I didn't see it, keep going."