Sell me marriage...

[koolinkunming]

Yet you brag about getting sex daily

I do get it daily, but not blowjobs daily, therefore my post. Even the daily sex is a big difference from my first marriage. Frequent blowjobs rarely last very long after marriage. Even daily sex is fairly rare, from what I hear from my married brethren.

 

[koolinkunming]

Even if it's the best present you've ever had and u can play with it daily, doesn't the possibility of better presents out there in the world tempt you?

Not really. Having a 22 year old, firm, hourglass shaped wife who’s a freak in the sack will do that to you.

 

[RockstarChris]

Not really. Having a 22 year old, firm, hourglass shaped wife who’s a freak in the sack will do that to you.

i dated some hot ass chicks in my time and i dont even know why they liked me. Enjoy it.

 

[steve38]

Do you let homeless people live with you? What percentage of your earnings do you donate to the poor? I'd like to know how much of what I work for I should give away in order to qualify as a real man in your eyes. The concept of 'manning up' and signing the marriage contract which gives away half my wealth plus possible alimony payments fascinates me. Explain this more.

Marriage can be great, but you have to know yourself, be very selective, and find a woman that actually adds to the quality of your life rather than one that detracts from it. Neither of you should be sacrificing anything.

If you haven't met one that makes you reconsider your perspective on all this, then it's best to just stay single. There's nothing wrong with that, IMO

 

[Katsumi Yamada]

Not really. Having a 22 year old, firm, hourglass shaped wife who’s a freak in the sack will do that to you.

Well....I suppose you were an old man who had a better idea than most young men of what the world had to offer by the time you got married.<45>

 

[koolinkunming]

Well....I suppose you were an old man who had a better idea than most young men of what the world had to offer by the time you got married.<45>

First marriage I was 25

 

[steve38]

I do get it daily, but not blowjobs daily, therefore my post. Even the daily sex is a big difference from my first marriage. Frequent blowjobs rarely last very long after marriage. Even daily sex is fairly rare, from what I hear from my married brethren.

That's great to have maintained that pace for so many years. I'm with the wife for over 7 years now, and it's slowed a bit, but enough for me. I would get tired of it every single day, with any one woman. btw, does your wife use blowjob as a verb?.... because that's like the cutest thing ever...lol.

 

[Katsumi Yamada]

My wife and I are a team and we compliment each other pretty well. I'm a head in the clouds kind of idealist who gets excited about everything and has limitless imagination, but limited focus and very little desire to do boring responsible things. I work and pursue all sorts of ideas for things to introduce to our lives like hobbies and financial ventures. My wife is more grounded, organized, and responsible.

Sounds like she's dragging you down

 

[Phlog]

Marriage is about telling your partner, yourself and your community that you're all in. It's about asking them all for help in making that a reality.

It's the kind of commitment that is needed to start a functional family unit.

Society recognises that level of commitment and gives legal and social protections.

It's a language that most people understand.

 

[Phlog]

Importantly I have provided the benefits of marriage, not of my relationship with my wife.

 

[steve38]

Sounds like she's dragging you down

"Keeping you balanced" and "giving you perspective"....every yin needs its yang

 

[Katsumi Yamada]

"Keeping you balanced" and "giving you perspective"....every yin needs its yang

Yes I was just teasing.

In fact what @Canned Tuna describes sounds exactly like my relationship with my wife.

 

[steve38]

Yes I was just teasing.

In fact what @Canned Tuna describes sounds exactly like my relationship with my wife.

Yeah, same here. You're a newlywed.....has anything changed since getting married? Wife getting fat and lazy already?...jk It's not America. haha

 

[spin]

daily BJs

In a rare harmonious moment of all races, genders, ages, and religions all over the world


Literally no one in existence believes you.

 

[Katsumi Yamada]

Yeah, same here. You're a newlywed.....has anything changed since getting married? Wife getting fat and lazy already?...jk It's not America. haha

She gained 1.5kgs so I bought her a yoga mat and she lost it again.

But for real...even since we got married in August she's already started to change.

She's a way better cook now.

 

[steve38]

She gained 1.5kgs so I bought her a yoga mat and she lost it again.

But for real...even since we got married in August she's already started to change.

She's a way better cook now.

Should have thrown her Yoga mat at her....all the cool guys are doing that these days.

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

This thread interests me.

I’ve lived with my girlfriend for over four years and aside from the legal thing and two rings, don’t see the point of marriage.

So I’m reading on.

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

I do get it daily, but not blowjobs daily, therefore my post. Even the daily sex is a big difference from my first marriage. Frequent blowjobs rarely last very long after marriage. Even daily sex is fairly rare, from what I hear from my married brethren.

I’ve been in a co-habiting relationship with my current GF for four years.

I used to get blowjobs daily but these phased out over time. I haven’t had one in a few years. Sex happens once a week, or every two weeks.

I think that my lack of desire to be married stems from the fact that my father left when I was four and I’m pretty much a product of a single mother, who grew up watching things like Bloodsport, Kickboxer, WWE (then WWF) and PRIDEFC. I’ve never sought out romantic things, was never exposed to romantic relationships and thus, have no real desire to be romantic aside from basic human affection (hugs, kisses, sex etc).

 

[Deleted member 110072]

I’ve been in a co-habiting relationship with my current GF for four years.

I used to get blowjobs daily but these phased out over time. I haven’t had one in a few years. Sex happens once a week, or every two weeks.

I think that my lack of desire to be married stems from the fact that my father left when I was four and I’m pretty much a product of a single mother, who grew up watching things like Bloodsport, Kickboxer, WWE (then WWF) and PRIDEFC. I’ve never sought out romantic things, was never exposed to romantic relationships and thus, have no real desire to be romantic aside from basic human affection (hugs, kisses, sex etc).

Which I would argue is really a lot more romantic that the more materialistic side ala a big white weddings, etc.

I must admit I do have a strong aversion to ending up in some tedious loveless middle class marriage, probably because I'v seen so many of them drag on and end across my family. The again I have a strong aversion of dull materialistic middle class life generally.

 

[Phlog]

Marriage is also a formal commitment to the wife that you are totally on board and will be with kids on the way. Women place a lot of stock in this.

A successful family takes more than love and affection. It is like a business, everyone needs to be accounted for and rewarded.

The legal commitment to split your wealth by half if you divorce should represent the effort that you both put in. Guys who are worried about that should reevaluate their relationships, it doesn't sound like they're hooking up with equals but subordinates. That's not likely to last.