Don’t get married. Why? Because you’re asking people to sell you on the idea of it.
You’re literally arguing with people over the idea of marriage even though you’ve never been married. It’s like shit talking a tv show you ain’t ever seen or a food you’ve never eaten. You’ve already picked your side.
Example:
I don’t like movie Deadpool. No matter what anyone says, or how many people say it, I will never like it. They like it; good for them. I don’t; yay for me. No one will ever sell me the idea that it’s a good movie. What works for them doesn’t work for me. The difference between this and your scenario is that I’ve actually seen the movie.
What’s my point? Probably that I’m an idiot. Oh, and that decisions in life, especially major decisions, should be based on what you want/believe, and not what other people want you to believe.