Hell no!!........Not unless you want to look like someone 3D printed you with a $2 shop device.
I'd like to submit to the court, exhibit A.....
At least these freaks don't need to dress up for Halloween I guess, but that's the only bright side, fella.
That's exactly what effed with their heads once they looked in the mirror & realized what they'd done.
What does "tales from the basement" mean here? If you think I'm actually some lady-less basement-dweller trolling you, why bother to reply?
Those two statements contradict each other. I wrote:
Even if you hadn't just mildly insulted me, I still would not send personal information about myself--much less my family--to a stranger on the world's most savage Wing Chun forum. I'll also note here that you've not posted a picture of yourself for everyone to evaluate.
My wife modeled for Calvin Klein. When we met I was a single father with an ex wife, in my early 30s, broke, living with roommates and working a crappy job while I tried to get a business off the ground. Not only was she way out of my league looks wise, she had her shit together unlike me.I can certainly sympathize with TS. It's hard to tell from his posts whether his problems with looks constitute deformities which need medical correction or not, but if not, maybe some of this might help. I'm an ugly dude, but still managed to find a very attractive wife and have been married for 30 years, with now three grown children. Among the hard lessons I learned are:
- Trying to find a woman at a nightclub did not work for me. It wasn't the right milieu for me. I never found a nightclub that specialized in ugly people. (Though I've been to some where it was mostly their unintended clientele. And even then the ladies had a higher standard than I represented looks-wise.)
- I had to be careful who I used words like "milieu" around. It's no fun to be called a "word
" by a nice looking woman.
- Meeting women where there was already a shared interest (or pretend shared interest) was the way to go for me. A lot of guys have more luck at churches or interest/hobby clubs, charity groups, music fan groups, etc, where the point is not dating, but where you can meet and socialize with women in a much lower-pressure environment. Now, you do have to find said groups that have women in them. That sounds obvious but I had friends who complained they couldn't find a woman but every group they interacted with was almost all male.
- Be on the lookout for women you know who you hadn't considered romantically but who might actually be sending you signals. I realized way too late that there were a couple of women when I was younger who were trying to tell me they were interested, but I was too wrapped up in finding the "right" girl to notice. Of course, make sure to balance that with making sure you're not reading that into everything your female friends say to you. It can be difficult to discern the difference sometimes, for sure.
- I did work on making myself look better, but things got easier once I accepted that I wasn't going to make myself look like someone else, but just a better version of me. And, the best version of me was still not going to look anything like a model. There was no magic to make me look like Brad Pitt or Chris Isaak (insert more contemporary reference here.)
- The toughest lesson, and the hardest to actually put into practice, was to get rid of my desperation. Women can sense it, and it's the basis of all that trying too hard that results in turning them off. I had to relax and let go and concentrate on making myself a more attractive prospect, which is not just a physical thing. That was very difficult because like most other young guys landing a woman was almost all I could think about. But once I did let go and develop some patience, I managed to meet someone. And that someone was Cindy Crawford. [Narrator: It was not Cindy Crawford.]
All that said, I realize it's a different world now with respect to courtship and dating. For example, I might now get murdered for using the word "courtship" in public. But I'd hope that some of this advice would be evergreen and maybe even helpful.
www.bbc.com
www.deseret.com
Because...
Here's a wolfman, a dwarf, and a guy whos whole face was a tumor... all of whom found love despite not being traditionally attractive.
'Larry The Wolf Boy' Gets Married And We're Howling With Joy
“Everyday feels like a honeymoon now."www.huffpost.com
'I fell in love and married a man with dwarfism'
Chloe Lusted talks about the reaction she faced when she and husband James got together.'My brand new face': Surgeries save life, give hope
OGDEN — Whether hitting the highway on his motorcycle or pumping iron at the gym, Maurice Simpson does it with confidence.
You can carve yourself up to your heart's content. I don't particularly give a shit. It's a free country. But whatever was actually making your love life difficult before will still be there.
That is some next level 3D chess if you’re single. You’re spending time in a target rich environment, making friends, and showing that you're secure in your masculinity. God damn bravo sir
That’s bad ass man, good on you
