How Do You Turn Down People You Don't Find Attractive?

[MikeHolmes]

I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I want them knowing there's no shot. I've had this issue in the past.

 

[RhinoRush]

I tell them 'No, @MikeHolmes, I don't want to have gay sex with you.'

 

[mushishi]

Be kind and direct: "I'm sorry, I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I'm DTF. All day."

 

[no fat chicks]

I let them touch it

 

[mb23100]

Tell them you're a sherdogger

 

[Pugilistic]

Tell them about your military experiences

 

[Banchan]

Lately, I've been getting hit on by ugly girls. I think it's because I'm so nice, they feel empowered to try me. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but it seems like there's no way not to turn them down without doing that.

If it happens once in a while it may be because that person has a self assumed high opinion of themselves . They dont know they are that ugly or that much of a bad catch in what ever way you feel like theyre deficient .

How ever if it keeps on happening more than not I think there are other reasons they may view you on the same level . And pls dont take this the wrong way but maybe there is some thing about you that is harder to love by the average person that many people might reject you for . Like you might be absolutely leagues above in attractiveness but maybe there are other things about you that put you on the same level .

And ya i read your others threads about depression and military . Perhaps in your own way you are only judging at face value your looks compared to hers buts she judging on what she can bring to the table in a relationship with you to make up for what she lacks in appearance .

 

[MikeHolmes]

If it happens once in a while it may be because that person has a self assumed high opinion of themselves . They dont know they are that ugly or that much of a bad catch in what ever way you feel like theyre deficient .

How ever if it keeps on happening more than not I think there are other reasons they may view you on the same level . And pls dont take this the wrong way but maybe there is some thing about you that is harder to love by the average person that many people might reject you for . Like you might be absolutely leagues above in attractiveness but maybe there are other things about you that put you on the same level .

And ya i read your others threads about depression and military . Perhaps in your own way you are only judging at face value your looks compared to hers buts she judging on what she can bring to the table in a relationship with you to make up for what she lacks in appearance .

I don't think it goes that deep. I don't think I'm some amazing catch; I just don't want bottom of the barrel fish. I truly think it's because I'm nice to everyone, that it gives some less attractive women confidence. And really, it's true: I won't tell her off.

 

[ProBoxingInsidr]

Depends on how much they know about me allready.

oh, the irony of this post

 

[MikeHolmes]

Tell them about your military experiences

The last girlfriend I had, I told her about the military and my hatred for it before we had sex for the first time. In the real world, people think my hatred for the military makes sense; it's just too strong and wasteful of an emotion.

I already told this woman about my military experience and reason of my discharge. She says she has the same thing.

 

[melvinj0]

Bang them anyway, one day you will be ugly too and maybe Karma will reward you.

 

[HHJ]

oh, the irony of this post

Sansa is a good lady.

 

[MikeHolmes]

Bang them anyway, one day you will be ugly too and maybe Karma will reward you.

How do people do this? My ex of 6 years was attractive and I struggled to get it up because of lack of attraction to her. How do people "mercy bang" anyone? I know for a fact that I would not be able to perform.

 

[melvinj0]

How do people do this? My ex of 6 years was attractive and I struggled to get it up because of lack of attraction to her. How do people "mercy bang" anyone? I know for a fact that I would not be able to perform.

Alcohol and dim lighting

 

[ithinktheymad]

I roll a couple strangely blunt-like devices full of my california legal medicine then invite her to lunch/brunch where I tell her I like her but only as a friend. The devices are to dull the unpleasantness to follow.

 

[ProBoxingInsidr]

Sansa is a good lady.

i meant that you have the genius as your av with a spelling error in your comment

 

[HHJ]

i meant that you have the genius as your av with a spelling error in your comment

I am still a genius nontheless,look how assured I am in my AV. That is the face of a man who is wholly comfortable with his staggeringly high mental acumen.

 

[ProBoxingInsidr]

I am still a genius nontheless,look how assured I am in my AV. That is the face of a man who is wholly comfortable with his staggeringly high mental acumen.

nonetheless

 

[DevilsLettuce]

The last girlfriend I had, I told her about the military and my hatred for it before we had sex for the first time. In the real world, people think my hatred for the military makes sense; it's just too strong and wasteful of an emotion.

I already told this woman about my military experience and reason of my discharge. She says she has the same thing.

She has discharge? Ew. No go.

 

[BigGucciSosa]