Yes. Instead of saying no way, Jose, I said that I am having a hard time and am not in the right place mentally to be dating. She keeps trying though.
I swear, part of my problem is I have this nice exterior and I don't want to hurt people's feelings. Why would she think to even ask me?
I believe it's called "no selling their offence" in pro-wrestling circles...
TBH I have only ever had blatantly underage girls be that direct. The other ones tend to be so oblique about their interest no "turning down" is required - it's easy to just play dumb.
Just tell Banchan "no".