How Do You Turn Down People You Don't Find Attractive?

[MikeHolmes]

Lately, I've been getting hit on by ugly girls. I think it's because I'm so nice, they feel empowered to try me. I don't want to hurt their feelings, but it seems like there's no way not to turn them down without doing that.

 

[HHJ]

Depends on how much they know about me allready.

 

[bubbleboyjones]

Are they actually asking you out?

 

[MikeHolmes]

Are they actually asking you out?

Yes. Instead of saying no way, Jose, I said that I am having a hard time and am not in the right place mentally to be dating. She keeps trying though.

I swear, part of my problem is I have this nice exterior and I don't want to hurt people's feelings. Why would she think to even ask me?

 

[Papawash]

Maybe they're just friendly. If you think they're after the D then you can tell them outright that you're not interested

 

[RighteousWar]

 

[FadeLess]

Just be honest with yourselfe ... if you do that you will be honest to them ... maybe in a gentle way , if possible ...

 

[MikeHolmes]

My mind's thoughts : "What the fuck?!?!? EWWWW"
My response: "I'm flattered. Thank you, but I'm really in a rough place mentally."

It's not working.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

I just punch them right in the ugly face. Leaves no doubt in their mind.

 

[Shael]

Just play dumb until you meet their hot friends.

 

[HHJ]

Just tell em your crushin on another girl right now

 

[EL CORINTHIAN]

I have a hard time turning down poon. I grew up a fat kid and i would take anything that let me burrow into their love tunnel. Im the poverty PUA. However i did have a life altering experience just last weekend that may or may not have drilled some standards into my head.

 

[Swiftie]

Just tell them you're involved in a relationship right now.

 

[HHJ]

I have a hard time turning down poon. I grew up a fat kid and i would take anything that let me burrow into their love tunnel. Im the poverty PUA. However i did have a life altering experience just last weekend that may or may not have drilled some standards into my head.

when a girl plays games with me and then inexplicably turns it back on,even when im drunk,im like FUUUUUUUUUUUCK OOOOOOOOOFFFFFFFF BITCH

life is confusing enough without you.

 

[JackWhite]

 

[EL CORINTHIAN]

when a girl plays games with me and then inexplicably turns it back on,even when im drunk,im like FUUUUUUUUUUUCK OOOOOOOOOFFFFFFFF BITCH

life is confusing enough with you.

Yea that would piss me off too. Men need sexual momentum and too much in one direction can seriously ruin the night. Our penors are mentally sensitive like that. Like one time i was with a girl and i was smashing but i felt like i was gonna blow my wad prematurely so i started to change the positions and slowed down a bit to help me, and then she looks at me with an annoyed face and says "Could you just be consistent with your rhythm, im having a hard time climaxing"..........I gave it like a minute more before my penor went soft and i just told her "Yea im really sorry but you kinda killed it..... what?.....no dont be ridiculous, im not angry but he is and he wont listen to me, trust me.........YOU FUCKED IT ALL UP"

 

[Hogey]

Be straight up. Being nice is one thing leading them on is another. Be a dick, being nice will get you nowhere with women.

 

[bubbleboyjones]

Yes. Instead of saying no way, Jose, I said that I am having a hard time and am not in the right place mentally to be dating. She keeps trying though.

I swear, part of my problem is I have this nice exterior and I don't want to hurt people's feelings. Why would she think to even ask me?

Who is she? A cowoker?

 

[heavyarms21]

I'll lead them on if I need something from them .

 

[DKallysz]

Whip it out wave it in their face and say, "See this? None for you."