That's a fair point. I have said multiple times that I don't dislike Ishihara I just find his use of that word gross and offensive. That doesn't make me hate him wholly and judge him unworthy of sympathy for anything going forward. People are flawed, and you can't ever just write them off for one thing that upsets you. If he were in a situation like Ronda now I'd be defending him while still finding his use of that word wrong.
As for Ronda using DNB I too find it to be less than admirable. Of course, there is a double standard. Women using the word bitch is far less offensive or harmful in my eyes. I know that upsets a lot of people but that's how I personally feel. Again though I don't support it or defend it. I am defending her in a separate way here, for a separate thing.