Ever caught anyone carrying out a affair?

[Diktaattori]

My friend was cheating my female friend with some ho. I caught him in the act and he said: "Chill, I doesn't matter, it's all fun"

Needless to say, that I slapped the fuck out of him. He actually confessed to his girlfriend the next day. They broke up, and are in good terms.

 

[Gervinho]

Yes my boss wife is sleeping with a guy she works with. Funny thing is he used to work with the guy few years ago. So we all know his wife is having an affair with the guy and she even convinced him to hire his brother. He came up to us the other day saying guess who i saw in my living room, he mentions the guys name and say he works in the same place as my wife and we just look at each other. My boss is the biggest liar you will ever meet and he's about to fire me, i intend to fuck him over by saying ask your friend(another manager) what that guy was doing in your living room and I would not let him in my house and leave it at there. I want him to be all over the place and ask his mate why he has not been telling him. You may think im a bad guy, but this guy is the biggest piece of shit and like I said he's about to fire me.

 

[Crazyced]

just be prepared to deal with the consequences of whatever you do, or don't do. the repercussions may be severe.

Same applies to her though, and in this case, she has a lot more to lose. She will not make a hasty move unless he let the cat out the bag. I'd say it's negotiation time.

 

[swirldog]

You want to be labeled a snitch, TS, and face potentially severe backlashes?

 

[White Mongoose]

just be prepared to deal with the consequences of whatever you do, or don't do. the repercussions may be severe.

Care to name some example? I'm divided between just walk away and pretend I know nothing mainly because I don't like to be involved with others drama. But at the same time it would be nice to tell this woman to treat me and my friend with lot of respect and keep her mouth shut when she's around us and no more of her "high school drama" crap (which I thinks is quite simple request)

 

[Phreaxer]

Care to name some example? I'm divided between just walk away and pretend I know nothing mainly because I don't like to be involved with others drama. But at the same time it would be nice to tell this woman to treat me and my friend with lot of respect and keep her mouth shut when she's around us and no more of her "high school drama" crap (which I thinks is quite simple request)

Disgruntled spouse: Divorce, assault, murder, suicide.. The potential is endless when you're talking about a scorned lover...

 

[Bolshevik***]

Care to name some example? I'm divided between just walk away and pretend I know nothing mainly because I don't like to be involved with others drama. But at the same time it would be nice to tell this woman to treat me and my friend with lot of respect and keep her mouth shut when she's around us and no more of her "high school drama" crap (which I thinks is quite simple request)

if you spill the beans, she may have some way of getting back at you. i don't know because i'm not too aware with how involved she is in your life, how close she is to others around you, etc. if you don't do anything, maybe later on if she gets busted some way, she can come back and say that you knew about her a long time ago and never said anything in order to try to redirect some of the blame back at you.

 

[weed]

I used to know a Rabbi who frequents hookers. also, he's only a Rabbi so he can evade taxes

 

[lakersfan45]

Blow the whistle on this whore. U dont have to say "ur wife is cheating on u!". Just present the. Evidence as u received it. This.whore doesn't deserve ur help

 

[White Mongoose]

Hm... Yeah I'm aware they can try do physical harm to me or kill me.

But one problem... I don't really have much to lose. I don't own a house, drive a beat up jeep which rarely is parked in front of where I live because I'm barely home, don't have any family anywhere near my city, don't have a relationship, or anything.

She on other hand is on second marriage, bought a house few years ago, have three kids, and is trying to climb ladder in her career. Plus her husband who bringin a very decent check.

 

[MSK1010]

Disgruntled spouse: Divorce, assault, murder, suicide.. The potential is endless when you're talking about a scorned lover...

amen

hell hath no fury like a women scorned.

 

[Bolshevik***]

when i first read the thread title, i thought it was going to be something like walking in on someone.

 

[White Mongoose]

I used to know a Rabbi who frequents hookers. also, he's only a Rabbi so he can evade taxes

Sound like a great fellows lol. How did you met him?

 

[Bolshevik***]

Blow the whistle on this whore. U dont have to say "ur wife is cheating on u!". Just present the. Evidence as u received it. This.whore doesn't deserve ur help

it's never a good idea to snitch. if this ends up ruining her life, she and the people close to her will blame him (even though it's her fault) and try to find a way to make him pay. the best thing to do is try to get her to confess, and make sure there's no way anything can be linked back to you.

 

[Phreaxer]

He might find out and have her hurt/killed.

Dude, people do dumb shit for 'love'... If you want to run the risk of being the catalyst instead of letting the relationship be found out in their own sweet time (no one keeps that kind of thing a secret forever), than make your own decision and be prepared for whatever the consequences. I doubt it's YOUR safety that is at risk, for what it's worth...

 

[Bolshevik***]

Sound like a great fellows lol. How did you met him?

synagogue probably.

 

[lakersfan45]

Hm... Yeah I'm aware they can try do physical harm to me or kill me.

But one problem... I don't really have much to lose. I don't own a house, drive a beat up jeep which rarely is parked in front of where I live because I'm barely home, don't have any family anywhere near my city, don't have a relationship, or anything.

She on other hand is on second marriage, bought a house few years ago, have three kids, and is trying to climb ladder in her career. Plus her husband who bringin a very decent check.

If your wife was cheating on u and a friend knew wouldn't u want him yo tell u?

 

[TheMadHatter]

I am friendly with my boss at work. a group of us have hung out after work and taken a few pinchwacks on multiple occasions. the problem is his wife cheats on him and everyone knows it but him. everyone feels too bad to tell him this because he is really the nicest guy you will ever meet. I just stay out of it.

 

[Bolshevik***]

If your wife was cheating on u and a friend knew wouldn't u want him yo tell u?

if your spouse is cheating on you, and you don't know, you're not doing your due diligence. your marriage, and its problems, aren't someone else's responsibility.

 

[fightdonttweet]

Yes my boss wife is sleeping with a guy she works with. Funny thing is he used to work with the guy few years ago. So we all know his wife is having an affair with the guy and she even convinced him to hire his brother. He came up to us the other day saying guess who i saw in my living room, he mentions the guys name and say he works in the same place as my wife and we just look at each other. My boss is the biggest liar you will ever meet and he's about to fire me, i intend to fuck him over by saying ask your friend(another manager) what that guy was doing in your living room and I would not let him in my house and leave it at there. I want him to be all over the place and ask his mate why he has not been telling him. You may think im a bad guy, but this guy is the biggest piece of shit and like I said he's about to fire me.

So if your boss is a jerk, why would you reward him by letting him find out about the cheating? You're not hurting him, you're hurting all your coworkers who know about it and have been covering. They will be the ones to suffer and its a dick move on your part.