Ever caught anyone carrying out a affair?

[Bolshevik***]

I cant disagree but some.people know.how.to.get away with it

if your spouse is cheating on you, and you can't figure it out, maybe you have it coming (not as in they deserve it, just that they can't seem to avoid it). getting a divorce isn't going to help them. the next person they're in a relationship with will probably do the same thing.

 

[White Mongoose]

Hmm... Still not sure of what to do.
Don't see why it would be so hard for her to hold up her end of the deals.
I don't give a damn if she end up get hurt or killed. Not like I will lost anything.
Even if it go badly for me, there's not much anyone can do to me.
But I'd hate to end up become part of this shitstorm. However at the worst, I'd just have to get out of city and turn phone off for a few weeks or months which isn't hard at all as that's pretty much how I'm living right now.

If my girl was cheating on me, I'd just walk out of her life. Yes I've walked out of person life before (not because she was cheating on me though) but yes I'd want someone to tell me. However I don't do relationship... At least not this point of my life.

 

[Crazyced]

Well the husbands a fucking asshole too. Don't ask a direct question and get pissed if someone gives you an honest answer. Worked out better for your wife not having to hang out with those douches anymore.k On the other hand, who can resist semi-pro bowler dick?

That husband is as whipped and easily manipulated as they get.

 

[White Mongoose]

As for it being none of my business... She have tried hard to get involved in mine in the past... Guess she don't like it when shoes is on the other foot.

 

[Bolshevik***]

Hmm... Still not sure of what to do.
Don't see why it would be so hard for her to hold up her end of the deals.
I don't give a damn if she end up get hurt or killed. Not like I will lost anything.
Even if it go badly for me, there's not much anyone can do to me.
But I'd hate to end up become part of this shitstorm. However at the worst, I'd just have to get out of city and turn phone off for a few weeks or months which isn't hard at all as that's pretty much how I'm living right now.

If my girl was cheating on me, I'd just walk out of her life. Yes I've walked out of person life before (not because she was cheating on me though) but yes I'd want someone to tell me. However I don't do relationship... At least not this point of my life.

the fact that you didn't snitch right away suggests that you should trust that instinct. if there was something going down on the street which required an immediate decision, you wouldn't come on here and ask for peoples' advice, would you?

 

[Joe Rogaine]

the husband could also end up dead. Ask him if his wife recently took out any life insurance policies

 

[White Mongoose]

the fact that you didn't snitch right away suggests that you should trust that instinct. if there was something going down on the street which required an immediate decision, you wouldn't come on here and ask for peoples' advice, would you?

True... Very good point there. Normally I don't give a damn but this woman just real rubs me and my friend the wrong way. So would love to see her shut up.

 

[catchwrestle1]

if your spouse is cheating on you, and you don't know, you're not doing your due diligence. your marriage, and its problems, aren't someone else's responsibility.

Accurate.

 

[Blitz55]

I wouldn't even get involved.

I say...

Spoiler

Get Involved :icon_twis

 

[SMillard]

Well the husbands a fucking asshole too. Don't ask a direct question and get pissed if someone gives you an honest answer. Worked out better for your wife not having to hang out with those douches anymore.k On the other hand, who can resist semi-pro bowler dick?

I agree, the dude was a bitch about it. Especially the way he let his wife manipulate the situation. Still it hurt my wife's feelings that she lost not only that girl as a friend but a couple other "friends" she met through association with her.


I agree about the semi pro bowler dick, if that isn't the most alpha dick out there I don't want to know what is.

 

[IIIIIIII]

to make a long story short, there is a woman i know who is married and who finds me attractive.

we made out once, and that was it. she has been telling her friends for years that she wants a divorce. the problem, is that her husband and her father are very close. she feels that if they divorce, it's going to ruin the interpersonal relationships with her family, which it undoubtedly will.

i could have had this woman plenty of times, but luckily my brain was able to control my penis, and nothing happened.

 

[Bolshevik***]

True... Very good point there. Normally I don't give a damn but this woman just real rubs me and my friend the wrong way. So would love to see her shut up.

people should normally have enough going on in their own lives/relationships/etc. that requires their attention instead of getting involved in someone else's stuff.

if she keeps up with her shenanigans, she'll get caught one way or another, but at least you won't be involved.

 

[Astrovik]

glad to say i haven't. not interested in all that drama.

Agreed. Some People kill people over this type of shit and ain't nobody got time foe dat.

 

[Bolshevik***]

I agree, the dude was a bitch about it. Especially the way he let his wife manipulate the situation. Still it hurt my wife's feelings that she lost not only that girl as a friend but a couple other "friends" she met through association with her.


I agree about the semi pro bowler dick, if that isn't the most alpha dick out there I don't want to know what is.

the problem is that the husband is a douche-bag. he was too sappy over his wife, and rather than blame her for what happened and end the marriage, he wanted desperately to cling to whatever notion of romance he still had vestigially. that's why he redirected the blame at your wife. the best thing she could have done was not say anything though. obviously it didn't help the situation, as she's the one that ended up getting ostracized.

 

[catchwrestle1]

to make a long story short, there is a woman i know who is married and who finds me attractive.

we made out once, and that was it. she has been telling her friends for years that she wants a divorce. the problem, is that her husband and her father are very close. she feels that if they divorce, it's going to ruin the interpersonal relationships with her family, which it undoubtedly will.

i could have had this woman plenty of times, but luckily my brain was able to control my penis, and nothing happened.

Excellent decision making on your part. It's very easy to make that mistake.

 

[Seven30]

Agreed. Some People kill people over this type of shit and ain't nobody got time foe dat.

From what I hear, you can get PLENTY of time foe dat....

 

[Baseball Choke]

I had a small group of friends after i graduated that I would hang out with. About 5 or 6 of us. One friend of mine had been dating this girl about 2 months. I show up to my other friends house and he proceeds to tell me he slept with this girl last night once her bf(my other friend) fell asleep. I had known both of them since 10th grade so I didn't know what to do. I tried to stay out of it. But it started getting too much. They would sneak off for the weekend and go to the beach, the gf would tell her bf that she had to babysit or some shit. He had no clue, he would come over and she would be there and it wouldn't click. He would just think she showed up early. Eventually one of the other friends tried to tell him but we all denied it. It almost a year of this going on. We all knew, so we begged her to break up with him.

Finally she did, he came to me and was upset thinking there was someone else. So I told him what had been going on and apologized for not telling him earlier. He eventually got over it, but his ex and our friend are still together to this day.

 

[Bolshevik***]

I had a small group of friends after i graduated that I would hang out with. About 5 or 6 of us. One friend of mine had been dating this girl about 2 months. I show up to my other friends house and he proceeds to tell me he slept with this girl last night once her bf(my other friend) fell asleep. I had known both of them since 10th grade so I didn't know what to do. I tried to stay out of it. But it started getting too much. They would sneak off for the weekend and go to the beach, the gf would tell her bf that she had to babysit or some shit. He had no clue, he would come over and she would be there and it wouldn't click. He would just think she showed up early. Eventually one of the other friends tried to tell him but we all denied it. It almost a year of this going on. We all knew, so we begged her to break up with him.

Finally she did, he came to me and was upset thinking there was someone else. So I told him what had been going on and apologized for not telling him earlier. He eventually got over it, but his ex and our friend are still together to this day.

teenage version of days of our lives over here.

 

[Blackdanger***]

I found love letters my mom wrote in Italian to a doctor...I showed them to my dad. He left for like 1 month and i think he went on an escort binge. They are still together and i perceive them as being very in love. This was like 10 years ago when i still lived in their home.

 

[Merlotte's]

About half a hour after he sent me a text, the woman sent me a text pleading and demanding me to keep my mouth shut.

You're in a privileged position to learn a thing or two, keep your mouth shut and your eyes open.

You have the upper hand. Use it. Hit it or extort it. Or both. Have you ever been paid for sex? Not likely. She's already unfaithful so I see no damage occuring from this course of action.