meh, i dont find it rapey. ive had dudes nag me to have sex with them, no matter how much they nagged i just turned them down and that was that. i dont think anybody that truly doesnt want to have sex with you is going to just do it. though ill say nagging isn't sexy and pretty pitiful lol, hopefully you guys are a little more fun and whatever else when making your advances.
i do know women that think it's considered rape. but those are my online, crazy sjw pals lol. tbh they think just about everything is rape ffs. gets on my nerves.