Would you ever raise another man's child?

[bigbangspiritbomb]

You don't know the first thing about life, kid.

I know you are on the hook when your wife jumps back on carousel 2.0.

Mad?

 

[STEVEN SEAGOLD]

So many proud and noble caregivers in this thread.

 

[STEVEN SEAGOLD]

Non-biological father? There's another word for that.

Metaphysical

 

[FierceRedBelt]

http://clementlaw.com/child-support/non-biological-father-liable-for-child-support/

That's a bit different than her walking into a relationship with child.

Horrifying none the less though. How in the world does she sleep at night?

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

I'm really curious to know how old you are.

Late 20s.

Not my first rodeo.

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I would light this place up with painted noods if not for ban hammer.

Its funny because beta will attack me that I hate women or cannot get women. Not an argument. It makes someone feel better about their shitty life though (not aimed at you specifically).

There are billions of women in the world. I just cannot fathom the idea of playing house with 1 woman let alone with kids.

Out doing my Babe Ruth Routine. Point and swing. Bunting is gay.

New girls turning 18/19/20/21 + everyday. To quote Mcgoat, 'I apologize to absolutely nobody."

I used to tell myself that I wouldn't end up with someone with kids but then I fell in love with one. Integrating their lives was a process, but I now have a terrific bond with them. On Saturday I took the oldest shopping for an Easter dress and we had an ice cream cone to celebrate our shopping victory (we found the perfect dress for her). My 20 year old self loathing the absurdness of what I have become. My 33 year old self couldn't be happier.

You sir maybe the anomaly.

I would tell my family, friends, and anybody that is willing to listen, not to do it.

In many a states, you are on the hook for both kids meaning, the woman has all the upside not to mention, the corrupt court systems that pander to women.


Good for you dude. Glad you are happy. I don't really believe in monogamy or forever. It suits a cute narrative that society puts on. It sells in Hollywood.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

That's a bit different than her walking into a relationship with child.

Horrifying none the less though. How in the world does she sleep at night?

Yet cucks/beta/white knights keep lining up.

If this was a social media platform, I would be banned already but, hommie WTF is the truth?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...r-met-despite-DNA-test-proving-s-not-his.html

Gross female behavior like this; should be taken out, shot and pissed on.

Imagine, if these women were in the middle east lulz



Dudes need to screen the fuck out of women. As I got older and headed into my late 20s, bishs be coming out of the wood works. Not playing that game.

Hottest girl today is played out tomorrow. Someone thinner, younger, and hotter is on the way up. Just saying.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

Raising a child well -any child- is both a gift to the child and a gift to the world.

Personally, I would be mindful of the Karmic consequences of walking away from something like that solely based on ego driven reasons. That is the exact type of shit the cosmos likes to throw back in your face.

Dump some chick you really dig just because you can't live with helping to raise a kid that's not yours......15 years later the cosmos unleashes that kid, raised by a sociopath and beaten his whole life, upon the world. Now you have a small equity stake in all his malevolence. Malevolence perhaps done to you or those near to you. Bad Ju-Ju. I would need a much more compelling reason than my own ego to walk away from that.

I agree with your point on ego but, how about female ego and entitlement?

The truth is that for the vast majority or just about all of them, it was chasing bad boys.

That puss was only for the guy that hits and runs when young and attractive.Gets preggers now she gets her victimhood story + pity party.

Why the fuck would Captain Save A Hoe jump to her rescue now? Better options await.

Look at these winners.

Some cuck will wife that up and raise her babies. It just blows my mind.

 

[cooks1]

I agree with your point on ego but, how about female ego and entitlement?

The truth is that for the vast majority or just about all of them, it was chasing bad boys.

That puss was only for the guy that hits and runs when young and attractive.

Why the fuck would Captain Save A Hoe jump to her rescue now? Better options await.

Fair enough points I guess. But I worry about my own Karma- not others. And there are a million perfectly justifiable reasons not to date or marry a woman that happens to have a kid that have nothing to do with a persons ego about raising a kid that's not theirs. Maybe you don't love the chick. Maybe you want to have children of your own to raise as well and the woman is not amenable to that. Maybe you have fundamental differences about lifestyle and finances. The most important thing in all of it though is not to allow the child involved to develop any attachment at all to you until you are completely sure of the role you want to have in their lives, whatever it may be, and invest all the way in that

Most of the single women I know with children are incredible women that are wonderful mothers doing an amazing job given their circumstances. If the majority of women with children you encounter are the slutty type looking to be saved, that says more about the surroundings your are putting yourself in and the company you are keeping than anything else.

 

[snakedafunky]

Late 20s.

Not my first rodeo.

Did you have success with women when you were younger?
Like in your natural prime for women say 16-24 when you just met women everywhere in college with friends or parties etc.?

You seem like a guy that never went through the natural dating and fucking phase.
And now is trying to make up for it. But all the good girls are already gone or you can't get them.
And now you have to convince yourself all woman are bad.

 

[Mike]

I take the single mom moniker to mean just that a mother who is single.

Caught me not reading the entire thread! That sucks though and I wouldn't do that. Also the age of the child matters significantly, a three year old has much different needs from a twelve year old.

Yeah we were talking about two different things, which explains my confusion. If the dad didn't just bail you can't come in and try to be their dad, that'll only cause problems for everyone.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

Fair enough points I guess. But I worry about my own Karma- not others.

Isn't that affecting your karma? Focusing on personal self interest? What is different about that and my looking out for self interest; not raising the alphas babies with a woman past her prime? Alpha stops calling now its time to play house. Not saying i or other dudes wont smash. They wont stay lol

Ever read the Yoga Sutras?

And there are a million perfectly justifiable reasons not to date or marry a woman that happens to have a kid that have nothing to do with a persons ego about raising a kid that's not theirs. Maybe you don't love the chick. Maybe you want to have children of your own to raise as well and the woman is not amenable to that. Maybe you have fundamental differences about lifestyle and finances. The most important thing in all of it though is not to allow the child involved to develop any attachment at all to you until you are completely sure of the role you want to have in their lives, whatever it may be, and invest all the way in that

I linked a misc thread in association to a previous tinder post. The consensus is troll account or woman seeking cuck/beta after her best options stop calling.

Most of the single women I know with children are incredible women that are wonderful mothers doing an amazing job given their circumstances.

Its a choice to have children, to have sex, to fuck the wrong man. I feel ZERO sympathy.

If the majority of women with children you encounter are the slutty type looking to be saved, that says more about the surroundings your are putting yourself in and the company you are keeping than anything else.

Its a very leftist world in both the college/uni/workplace. Hell, even social media is very leftist. I would be banned already or blocked temporarily.


WE DONT NEED A MAN rubbish is all the jazz when her options exist.

In comes the text/phone calls/drunk dials.

Yes, you may have a point on environment. I suspect there is a lot of sluts and single moms in my vicinity. Still, if you were to hit on absurd amounts of girls, you come across a similar pattern, and sequence of behavior.

You come to certain conclusions.

 

[YoungBoyd]

Spoiler that shit. Some of these women should be put down.

 

[indo80]

If your wife like the many who initiated divorce decided to run up with your children and assets, you are cucked, and while she is out getting carousel 2.0 your dollar is footing the bill.

You are using a lot of ifs, not all marriages end up in divorce. Even in the west about half of the marriages succeed and not every marriage involves step parents. You are just way too much into this cuck thing. The way i see it about 25% of the population is marriage material where both men and women make great husbands or wives. Another 45% of the population can make their marriage succeed if they work on it and dont give up. The last 30% of the population which includes both men and women is not marriage material.

 

[Chad R. Thundercock]

Late 20s.

Not my first rodeo.

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I would light this place up with painted noods if not for ban hammer.

Its funny because beta will attack me that I hate women or cannot get women. Not an argument. It makes someone feel better about their shitty life though (not aimed at you specifically).

There are billions of women in the world. I just cannot fathom the idea of playing house with 1 woman let alone with kids.

Out doing my Babe Ruth Routine. Point and swing. Bunting is gay.

New girls turning 18/19/20/21 + everyday. To quote Mcgoat, 'I apologize to absolutely nobody."



You sir maybe the anomaly.

I would tell my family, friends, and anybody that is willing to listen, not to do it.

In many a states, you are on the hook for both kids meaning, the woman has all the upside not to mention, the corrupt court systems that pander to women.


Good for you dude. Glad you are happy. I don't really believe in monogamy or forever. It suits a cute narrative that society puts on. It sells in Hollywood.

Homie. I'm impressed at your ability to pull chicks, but lighten up a little. I don't think these blue pill dudes will ever get it. It's best to leave them in their own bubble of ignorance. And once that divorce rape comes around, they'll probably see the light.

 

[aldeniro78]

I know you are on the hook when your wife jumps back on carousel 2.0.

Mad?

I'm not married.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

Spoiler that shit. Some of these women should be put down.

In before some cuck defends them.

Someone in the misc trolled one of these girls. The one who said, "i have collage certificates."

I repeat, "COLLAGE."

If this was the middle east... Allah Akbar gonna rage

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

Homie. I'm impressed at your ability to pull chicks, but lighten up a little. I don't think these blue pill dudes will ever get it. It's best to leave them in their own bubble of ignorance. And once that divorce rape comes around, they'll probably see the light.

The thing is, I am aware of red pill/pua/mgtow but, I don't identify with either.

I am as non-conformist as you can be.

I don't follow the beaten path of married + 2.2 children + wife after trashed SMV + white picket fence.

I am not playing that game.

I think I could lighten up a bit lol its just these cucks need some tough love.


The thing is, if I was out on social media or blasting this chit in shopping malls, some white knight cuck would crush my fucking head with a bolder from behind (note cowardice) in the name of female victimhood.

The same cuck would get divorced after playing white knight, raising her babies, and getting taken to the cleaners.

 

[bigbangspiritbomb]

You are using a lot of ifs, not all marriages end up in divorce.

You really want to do this? Okay.

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80 Percent of Divorces Are Filed By Women
According to theNational Center for Health Statistics50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce. Of the marriages that end in divorce, 80 percent of the divorces are initiated (filed) by women.
http://www.uplifting-love.com/2013/08/80-percent-of-divorces-are-filed-by.html

Because only 50% of divorces end (80% of which initiated by female victimhood) cucks should be lining up?

Again, the stats speak for themselves. The risk for divorce goes up based upon kill count as well for women. Female discontentment and promiscuity amplifies the risk in divorce.

Again, skiing down cawk mountain until playboy stops calling. Puts on the good girl act ropes in some beta before leaving with half his shit + caoursel 2.0 which he foots the bill for all the while she steals away his assets + children.

Sounds like brain damage business arrangement.

Stats speak for itself. Its not the alarming amount of divorces that fail but, that women not men are trashing the nuclear family more than 80% of the time or 2/3. Worst of all, the link is old, and likely, the numbers are even worse now.

Even in the west about half of the marriages succeed and not every marriage involves step parents. You are just way too much into this cuck thing. The way i see it about 25% of the population is marriage material where both men and women make great husbands or wives. Another 45% of the population can make their marriage succeed if they work on it and dont give up. The last 30% of the population which includes both men and women is not marriage material.

Most people are not compatible and the fallout is on dudes

 

[VinnieVincent]

I'm 32 and Mexican, all the Latinas my age not only have kids, but are most likely divorced with kids from different guys.

I myself don't want kids and I'm actually considering getting a vasectomy this year.

Dating single moms can be fun, they usually aren't as demanding as the ladies without kids. If it's not your thing then simply move onto the next one. Although I would preferably not raise another man's child, I don't have anything against those that choose to. Live and let live.

 

[VinnieVincent]

This thread reminded me of the Tom Leykis show btw. Any leykis 101 students out there?