Would you ever raise another man's child?

[MikeMcMann]

the more you measure yours and others masculinity by stuff like the OP question is the more you are likely an insecure, weak male.

Each person can decide on their own based on the relationship they are in, if that works for them and neither choice is a sign of weakness or anything else that the wannabe alpha's always try to make it out to be.

 

[D3THRONED]

With a women I love?....yes.

Having the chance to shape another humans life is more important to me then any societal/cultural hang ups.

Anyone can drop a load of DNA in a women and hang around with the kid, but to drop knowledge on a child, regardless of genetic origins, is far more profound and important. memes>genes

Good to know there's decent humans still

 

[D3THRONED]

Sorry dude. Science dictates. Undeniable. Unwavering. Truth.

I guess we are different people. I'm an old school type. Not calling you weak. Just how it is. Absolute truths.

For someone who's "old school", you've got a lot to learn.

 

[Jimmy Jazz]

I think you've confused the meaning of old school. I generally think of old school people being more polite and courteous. I'd think an old school person would be more inclined to take on all responsibilities that come with the person they've fallen in love with.

nah old school means you don't date single mom's and want it fresh. I've talked to enough old guys who feel that way.

 

[CoolB]

nah old school means you don't date single mom's and want it fresh. I've talked to enough old guys who feel that way.

Old guys and old school are 2 different things. Not surprised old guys want it fresh and baggage free. Most of them have already taken marriage and the such for a ride long ago.

 

[Jimmy Jazz]

Old guys and old school are 2 different things. Not surprised old guys want it fresh and baggage free. Most of them have already taken marriage and the such for a ride long ago.

no I was talking to one and we were talking about his young friend who just moved in with a single mom and I asked him if that was common when he was my age and he was like " Hell no! why would you want to do that? back in my day men wanted to raise their owns kids, not shack up with some easy woman who has been around."

 

[CoolB]

no I was talking to one and we were talking about his young friend who just moved in with a single mom and I asked him if that was common when he was my age and he was like " Hell no! why would you want to do that? back in my day men wanted to raise their owns kids, not shack up with some woman who has been around."

Yeah he's not old school. That's just an ignorant thing to say. Scenario, lets say single mom's husband is a fire fighter and died saving lives and this guy thinks she's just some woman that's been around.

 

[Jimmy Jazz]

Yeah he's not old school. That's just an ignorant thing to say. Scenario, lets say single mom's husband is a fire fighter and died saving lives and this guy thinks she's just some woman that's been around.

yeah he is old school, man. Widows is an entirely different thing and you know that isnt usually the case. Most of the time its divorce or separated. Thats what he was referring to. Old school is not having children out of wedlock too. Also the woman he was referring to still had a baby daddy, so you're wrong.

 

[aus101]

If you can afford it and they're great kids you may as well pull a pierce Brosnan in ms doubtfire move.

 

[Jimmy Jazz]

You sound insecure.

he sounds smart.

 

[Dreaming Dead]

Fuck no. What's wrong with you, TS?

I'm not even one of those "red pill" weirdos.

 

[Damien Karras]

he sounds smart.

If the guy raising the child doesn't mind, how is he emasculated in any way?

My gf has kids but the father is in the picture. But I help raise those kids. I'm on super good terms with the dad and he is grateful that his kids have another person in their lives who love and care for them.

If everyone is ok and on the same boat, what is inherently wrong with it?

 

[CoolB]

yeah he is old school, man. Widows is an entirely different thing and you know that isnt usually the case. Most of the time its divorce or separated. Thats what he was referring to. Old school is not having children out of wedlock too. Also the woman he was referring to still had a baby daddy, so you're wrong.

Well here we are, I've put my new orthodontic shoes on and I stand corrected.

 

[Jimmy Jazz]

If the guy raising the child doesn't mind, how is he emasculated in any way?

My gf has kids but the father is in the picture. But I help raise those kids. I'm on super good terms with the dad and he is grateful that his kids have another person in their lives who love and care for them.

If everyone is ok and on the same boat, what is inherently wrong with it?

I was speaking more to pwent's comment. not wanting to raise another dudes kids isnt insecurity and contrary to pop psychology somethings are worth feeling insecure about.

 

[cmw43]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it but I personally wouldn't date a girl who already has kids, for me it's too much to take on I wouldn't want to go from Single to having a family just like that.

 

[Jimmy Jazz]

Well here we are, I've put my new orthodontic shoes on and I stand corrected.

well its true, man. Old school is the opposite of these single mother divorce culture we have now. It meant making commitments and keeping them the first time around.

 

[michal001]

I dated this really hot MILF and helped "raise" her 18 year old daughter.

 

[blitzk]

I broke it off with an awesome chicks cause she wanted kids and I don't. I'll be damned if I end up raising someone else's kid. fuck that.

 

[HHJ]

I TECHNICALLY dont have an issue. Blood dont mean shit,i have some people related to me that are total scum. I just dont wanna raise kids period,I want to be free of that responsibility.

 

[Only Here for Attachments]

I dated this really hot MILF and helped "raise" her 18 year old daughter.