That's because you weren't there at the start of it.
It started because some female video game developer (can't even remember her name now) made some platform indy game that legitimately was, just... awful. Gameplay wise it was mediocre at it's best downright trash at it's worst and it ALSO tried to do the preachy feminism shtick that people just generally are turned off by in media.
THEN it came out that she was sleeping with reviewers to get positive reviews. THAT's what set the whole shit off but then Vox and Milo got involved and it turned to shit.
Zoe Quinn, that was the dev lady's name.
@Falsedawn I basically summed it up right? Cause I know girls that play games (some more than me, some that make some money on the side on Twitch by being legit gamers and not showing their tits constantly like other thots on Twitch do) that were ranting and raving about it just as badly as the guy's were. Some more vehemently straight up going "this is why so many idiots call gamer girls whores"