Yeah, to tell you the truth, this is the first time I've read your log.
I saw you were seeking criticism and/or support, so I decided to check it out.
Are you following a specific routine? You said, "I need to be more aggressive with my workouts. Too often I think I settle for moving weight I already know I can do. I need to set higher goals and really break my ass trying to achieve them."
I think a routine such as Bill Starr's 5x5 might work really well for someone in your situation. Because of the natural progression of the program, most people see really good gains. It forces you to try heavier weights each week, and because of the format of the program, most people are able to adapt to the weight increases.
If what you're doing is working very well, try something else. You don't really want to be lifting aimlessly, unless you really know what you need to do and how to listen to your body.
I'm certainly not an advanced lifter, nor have I been lifting for very long, but I know the lifts I need to perform and I do whatever lifts I feel I need to on a given day.
That probably won't work for everyone, but I've been seeing good gains from it.
I also saw VERY good gains from Bill Starr's 5x5, and again, I'd suggest you give that routine, or one like it, a try.
Just my 2c.