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There's that ONE guy in a group (i.e., at work, or a buddy group) that always suddenly and drastically morphs his personality when any new female (5/10 or better) is in the room, or just walks through it.
Here's the breakdown:
1. Will start pushing out odd combinations of words and cutting himself off, usually trying to improvise a "joke" or three. Very loudly. To no one in particular, in order to be "overheard". In this format he is a Zen puzzle-- Way too loud, yet somehow all too quiet
2. You can FEEL the veins in his head bulging without even having to look as he speaks so eloquently. The unnaturalness of the situation causes everyone to instinctively look at their shoes or turn the other way
3. Sentences march determinedly, unsteadily onward to an onslaught of broken paragraphs, then pages, in an attempt to cover up the previous fragment of haphazardly manufactured embarrassment, which just accumulates into a bigger, hotter frenzy, and complete quiet apart from himself *(alternately, a more savvy crowd may mercifully drown him out with a synchronized volley of ambient alternate conversations, allowing him a possible exit. Usually not)
4. For the grand finale, after having gained zero favorable response or attention at all, initiates the 'big guns' (very often during step 1, depending..) from his arsenal of how he THINKS social dynamics work, and directly insults at least the top TWO of the guys he feels most "threatened by" (better looking, funnier, higher social status, etc.), who he, in his head, KNOWS are competing with him(!!!!) for this chick that in reality no one knows or cares about. He's so flustered, he can't even do it in pretending joke-format anymore. Just spills out his herky jerky frustration to the entire room
5. Gains fame, recognition, and proceeds home with the women of his choice
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If you work with a hick, I think you know what I'm talking about
Here's the breakdown:
1. Will start pushing out odd combinations of words and cutting himself off, usually trying to improvise a "joke" or three. Very loudly. To no one in particular, in order to be "overheard". In this format he is a Zen puzzle-- Way too loud, yet somehow all too quiet
2. You can FEEL the veins in his head bulging without even having to look as he speaks so eloquently. The unnaturalness of the situation causes everyone to instinctively look at their shoes or turn the other way
3. Sentences march determinedly, unsteadily onward to an onslaught of broken paragraphs, then pages, in an attempt to cover up the previous fragment of haphazardly manufactured embarrassment, which just accumulates into a bigger, hotter frenzy, and complete quiet apart from himself *(alternately, a more savvy crowd may mercifully drown him out with a synchronized volley of ambient alternate conversations, allowing him a possible exit. Usually not)
4. For the grand finale, after having gained zero favorable response or attention at all, initiates the 'big guns' (very often during step 1, depending..) from his arsenal of how he THINKS social dynamics work, and directly insults at least the top TWO of the guys he feels most "threatened by" (better looking, funnier, higher social status, etc.), who he, in his head, KNOWS are competing with him(!!!!) for this chick that in reality no one knows or cares about. He's so flustered, he can't even do it in pretending joke-format anymore. Just spills out his herky jerky frustration to the entire room
5. Gains fame, recognition, and proceeds home with the women of his choice
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If you work with a hick, I think you know what I'm talking about