Obviously I've already explained that the standard of "not being a dick about it" is for me to pretend that white snow is black, to protect other people's sensibilities.
If the standard of me not being a dick about it, was to not call these people "trannies" or "
s", sure, I could understand that logic. But when you're extending the deemed insult to me calling a male person "he", then that's a "bit" over the line of this being about mere disrespect, and has now entered the realm about re-shaping reality.