That's an entirely unfair accounting of what happened. Are you suggesting that black slaves didn't try to overthrow slavery at numerous times during the slave era? That they, as a group, just accepted it? If that is your belief then your knowledge of black history is extremely incomplete. Black slaves tried to escape all of the time, they organized revolts all of the time. You think slaves weren't allowed to have weapons and were lynched and beaten for no reason? That laws requiring the return of runaway slaves to their masters existed because slaves just accepted their condition?
You have a massive gap in your knowledge of black history and it is leading you to draw negative conclusions about those you claim are your people.
If you define yourself as clean, who cares what I think? Unless you're chasing my approval.
And people don't believe you because for someone who defines himself as black you show a notable disregard for black people. You never have anything positive to say about them, only negative things. Even black people in the worst of conditions find something of themselves and other black people to be proud of. You don't. That makes you a massive outlier. We've talked before and no matter how many positive things I say about black people, you only criticize. Never a statement of pride or support.
And you're wrong - the things that define a group is what they say about themselves. What you say about yourself is what you project to others. Any basic mental health professional will tell you that. Your internal dialogue becomes your external reality.
It's disappointing that someone who defines himself as black is incapable of actually discussing the breadth of black accomplishment and spends so much time trying to define black people negatively.
For armchair psychology's sake, you should consider this. Someone who constantly defines himself as something that he does not respect is telegraphing that he/she does not respect him/her-self. If you define yourself as black but you also only see black America from a negative light then you're telling us that you see yourself through that same negative light. You should ruminate on that.
If you don't see yourself as equal already then that's your primary problem. And yes you can call yourself equal to another man and then live it. This is a conversation at a very basic level and it's about self-image.
The rest of that section is absurd, no one's sitting around singing songs and shit.
So, let's just demonstrate a very basic principle here. Can you type something positive about black America that isn't about music, sports, politics or entertainment? Can you highlight one black person today who has excelled in academics or industry?
See the previous paragraph.
Highlight a black person who has accomplished something that you think represents something to be proud of.
As for those who are allegedly not - that's bullshit. There are white people who act like trash. White people don't sit around and define themselves by them. There are Asians who are lazy and stupid. Asians don't sit around and define themselves by them. Jamaicans don't and we have a poor country. We define ourselves by our best, not by our worst.
So, the problem that you're highlighting is not a problem of choice or not feeling equal. It's a problem with some black people who spend their time looking for reasons to criticize and put down other black people. They ignore successful black people so that they can go and criticize the struggling.
It's the crabs in a barrel problem writ large. If you spend all of your time telling everyone how shitty black people are, you should ask yourself why you don't spend that time telling them how great black people are. Surely you know great black people, don't they deserve more of your promotion?
In another way, it's the real source of the house slave problem. The problem with the house slave wasn't that he/she was a house slave and had a positive relationship with the owner. It was that the house slave came to see the field slave as less than the house slave. To look at the field slave through the same negative lens that the plantation master perceived them and thus drive a wedge between two groups that were otherwise identical. The house slave wanted to believe there was a difference between them and so exaggerated the field slaves deficits in a misguided attempt to elevate the house slave's merit by comparison. That is a mindset that needs to be broken. Praise your own for what they do well. Stand up for their accomplishments. Be a model worth replicating.
As DuBois stated, it is the exceptional among us who will improve our standing in society and set the model by which we grow ourselves. And anyone who claims to care about the success of black people in this country should be spending their time finding, promoting and trying to become one of those exceptional black people.
So, stop bitching about the unsuccessful people that every other group has and start promoting the successful as every other group does. Change the narrative. Otherwise, you're just dragging black America down as badly as those you criticize.