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I lose respect for a woman if she doesn’t jump on my dick after 2 seconds of eye contact. Obviously a bitch.
Isn't that kind of the point? That she has some self-control and doesn't just bang guys she barely knows whenever she has a slight attraction? If she's that easy to sleep with, it's probably not just for you. That's fine for a casual fuck buddy, but respect isn't what comes to mind and that's certainly not somebody to trust in a long-term relationship.Whenever i've gone out with someone and we get on we've always ended up in bed first date, why wouldn't we? Does the female have to pretend she doesn't want to have sex?
You know straight away if there is a connection don't you? If a male wants to have sex straight away why do some males believe a female shouldn't?
What is the point in doing the dance and waiting for a few dates when both want to have sex on the first date? [especially when you are both older.]
Haven't read all the comments but i expect some will be that females who have sex straight away are sluts, etc. Thats because so many misogynists post here, and so many boys here have never actually had sex with anything but their hand!
There is a shitload of overlap in those 2 groups.I think there's a big difference between fucking on the first date and being a slut. Those two aren't the same.
I can't stand when women hold out and when they do I usually bail. You know good and goddamn well they didn't make other dicks wait, so the fact that they make you wait because you're "relationship material" is a huge slap in the face.A girl who takes longer to sleep with you is getting to know you, in most cases. She's getting a sense of whether there's a connection, whether you two are good together. Which is to say, she's looking for something long-term. Which is good if that's what you're also looking for.
I'm sure there's some crazy women who withhold sex out of spite or god knows what. But if she's crazy, you'll sense it quickly.
Nothing but gratitude from meIt may not be as common a feeling or belief as it once was. But it may still be. Maybe it’s women who still worry about it. I really don’t know. What I do know, is that in reality, guys do not lose respect for women who sleep with them too fast.
Me personally, I actually gain respect for them. I think that guys only lose interest/respect for women they sleep with if the sex is bad. But how long a woman makes a man wait has nothing to do with it.
Again, maybe times have changed to the point that men don’t lose respect for fast sex at all. And maybe women don’t worry about it either. But to the extent that the belief still exists, it’s a total myth.