How to get women.

[Real_Magi]

good post.

You make some good points but this would only work on certain profiles.

Yeah I got shot down pretty hard by a super conservative mountain biker chick. She was mormon and just really up tight. Didn't care too much though, not my type of chick.

Another super up tight mormon chick I dated was way into it though. She was 21 and still a virgin, absolutely gorgeous too. I probably could have had sex with her, but I held back during the make out sessions because I would have felt really bad for taking her virginity since I didn't feel like we'd ever work out. I'm way too wild to be with a chick like that and she always talked about getting sealed in the temple and raising mormon children.

Feel bad for all the ugly dudes that are going to take your advice and bomb. Little "games" and shit only goes so far. My brother has the worst game I've ever seen, but he looks like a fucking super model and girls will literally just come up to him at random places drooling and handing out their number. Also have friends that are very good with words but ugly or fat and they will never get laid. This criteria you have presented is actually only good for guys like me, that right around average looking. But I do fine in the women department for the most part, so I'm not worried about it. But I hope some of these ugly fuckers that post here don't take this as gospel.

Only one way to find out man. And like I said previously, I have a couple friends that aren't good looking and do great with women. One of them was dating Ms Utah for hell's sake.

If you're good looking, out going, and adhere to the OP, you're going to smash that shit out of the park, for sure. But I'm not convinced it wouldn't work for ugly dudes. If you're so confident that the cold approach works, there is no reason to refrain from behaving the way the OP outlines since she's already decided she wants to see what you're worth anyway. May as well show her you're worth a good dicking.

 

[FrontNakedChoke]

I call it "The TS"

 

[Cubo de Sangre]

I actually made a conscience effort to use some of this here advice last friday night with a girl I've been interested in. We actually have some past history and she was the one who asked me out, so I got to skip the first part. But I tried all the other stuff. Body language, listening intently, making constant eye contact, pulling her close to me, etc.

Long story short we ended up making out right there at the bar, then against a wall on the street outside the bar, then fucked in my truck parked on the side of the street with people walking by cheering and shit. She goes, "I don't even care if the cops see us as long as they don't do anything."

I rate her a solid 9.

And she's been texting me every day since saying she can't wait to see me again and she can't stop thinking about friday night.

True story sherbros. Believe it or not.

Go me! *high fives self*

and thanks TS!

Bitchin'. Hopefully no little kiddies caught a glimpse. I hear that's a felony.

 

[highkicknomore]

That's awesome man. Nice little boost to the ego. Really cool that your wife was there too so she can remember that you're a hot commodity.

Thanks man. Wife is really cool though, she also has a sense of humor (just not that situation).

 

[highkicknomore]

Oh yeah, when I was still dating my wife, some pick up dude tried to holler at her at a bookstore.

I was in the comics section and she was somewhere else. I overheard the whole situation and the guys came up with "I'm the bookstore customer service, how are you liking the store so far? We're doing a survey"

I was laughing but I didn't interfere. Let them talk and she mentioned she was looking for me, so I popped up like a creeper. We said bye to the dude and left. She said she wasn't sure if the dude was really an employee. I laughed even more.

 

[Real_Magi]

Oh yeah, when I was still dating my wife, some pick up dude tried to holler at her at a bookstore.

I was in the comics section and she was somewhere else. I overheard the whole situation and the guys came up with "I'm the bookstore customer service, how are you liking the store so far? We're doing a survey"

I was laughing but I didn't interfere. Let them talk and she mentioned she was looking for me, so I popped up like a creeper. We said bye to the dude and left. She said she wasn't sure if the dude was really an employee. I laughed even more.

Lol! Dude had some lame ass game.

 

[Tos]

"You're just so gorgeous, I'm sorry, I'll just look away when we talk." then hold your hand up to block your vision when you talk to her so that it's comical.

 

[KeepingItReal]

Feel bad for all the ugly dudes that are going to take your advice and bomb. Little "games" and shit only goes so far. My brother has the worst game I've ever seen, but he looks like a fucking super model and girls will literally just come up to him at random places drooling and handing out their number. Also have friends that are very good with words but ugly or fat and they will never get laid. This criteria you have presented is actually only good for guys like me, that right around average looking. But I do fine in the women department for the most part, so I'm not worried about it. But I hope some of these ugly fuckers that post here don't take this as gospel.

This is a good point. The degree of order you can bring to someone else's life is usually the degree of order you can bring into your own life. If you are a fat slob, your room looks like shit, you blow all your money and you are too lazy to even do dishes you are obviously a disordered person. How can any woman expect you to bring any semblance of order into her life when you can't even bring it into yours.

 

[minute bull]

Lol! Dude had some lame ass game.

Fuck you! Back then we had no negging! No nothing! We had to fashion women from clay and sand!

 

[Mike]

Well, today I made eye contact with a cute girl at the grocery store. Sigh.

 

[Real_Magi]

Well, today I made eye contact with a cute girl at the grocery store. Sigh.

Next time force yourself to approach her! It will be way different than you're fearing, I guarantee it. No one is going to say, "Fuck you!" and throw shit in your face. Just do it it bro.

 

[Mike]

Next time force yourself to approach her! It will be way different than you're fearing, I guarantee it. No one is going to say, "Fuck you!" and throw shit in your face. Just do it it bro.

Yeah I have some serious issues. I've literally never approached a woman like that. I know.

 

[F. Todos]

Getting laid on a first or second date is one thing, but in my experience those are not the kinds of things that last. Not saying I'm typical, but the dates I've gone on to have relationships with, sex wasn't forefront (at least in my perspective) and it didn't happen right away. The ones who I've bagged in one or 2 dates, rarely see them again, or it gets intense fast and fizzles out in a dramatic fashion.

At this point in my life, I'd rather met someone that I could have a relationship with, but my pecentages of those are much much lower than when I meet a woman and we get physical fast. Maybe that's a Tinder thing.

 

[Pugilistic]

Yeah I have some serious issues. I've literally never approached a woman like that. I know.

A lot of shit is talked about confidence here without actually defining it but I see confidence as being yourself plus the potential to be who you can be and want to be. If you want to do something but don't do it because you are afraid, then in my opinion are not being your true self. When you saw that cute girl, did you have the desire to talk to her and know her? You say women just don't like who you are, but guy who wants to talk to that cute girl is the person you really are deep down.

Think of it this way, the next girl you approach could be the love of your life, or your future wife. Sure the chances are low, but you never know. Don't let opportunities like that pass you by.

 

[Orgasmo]

Yeah I have some serious issues. I've literally never approached a woman like that. I know.

What's the worst that can happen? She says no?

Don't be a bitch and get it done.

 

[Real_Magi]

Getting laid on a first or second date is one thing, but in my experience those are not the kinds of things that last. Not saying I'm typical, but the dates I've gone on to have relationships with, sex wasn't forefront (at least in my perspective) and it didn't happen right away. The ones who I've bagged in one or 2 dates, rarely see them again, or it gets intense fast and fizzles out in a dramatic fashion.

At this point in my life, I'd rather met someone that I could have a relationship with, but my pecentages of those are much much lower than when I meet a woman and we get physical fast. Maybe that's a Tinder thing.

I absolutely agree. Like I said before, I'm clueless when it comes to making the transition from hot new thing to real relationship. In fact, I wish someone that just goes from long term relationship to long term relationship would make a thread, lol. I don't have any problem being a good partner, it's the transition that I know nothing of.

 

[Pugilistic]

Getting laid on a first or second date is one thing, but in my experience those are not the kinds of things that last. Not saying I'm typical, but the dates I've gone on to have relationships with, sex wasn't forefront (at least in my perspective) and it didn't happen right away. The ones who I've bagged in one or 2 dates, rarely see them again, or it gets intense fast and fizzles out in a dramatic fashion.

At this point in my life, I'd rather met someone that I could have a relationship with, but my pecentages of those are much much lower than when I meet a woman and we get physical fast. Maybe that's a Tinder thing.

I kind of agree and don't. My longest relationship started with us having sex on the second date. The only reason we didn't have sex on the first date is because I wanted to go home and catch a Pacquiao fight that night. I don't think when you have sex is the issue so much as sex not being on the forefront as you said. When it comes to longterm relationships, I think you need to ask yourself if you would be into this woman if you weren't having sex regularly. There were plenty of times I've met girls whom I kind of liked, but not enough to have made the effort to see them if it wasn't for the sex. My current girlfriend, I love to just hang out and talk with, and we don't have sex that often (because of distance and work schedules). That's not to say sex isn't important.

 

[Pugilistic]

I absolutely agree. Like I said before, I'm clueless when it comes to making the transition from hot new thing to real relationship. In fact, I wish someone that just goes from long term relationship to long term relationship would make a thread, lol. I don't have any problem being a good partner, it's the transition that I know nothing of.

I thought about making one. In part to impart the lessons I've learned overtime and to ask for advice as well since I am in a pretty happy relationship now but I would like to know how to deal with certain things better. I do think some aspects of "gaming" girls carries over to maintaining relationships.

 

[minute bull]

What's the worst that can happen?

You say that now when suddenly Monica finds himself living out his own Frankie Goes to Hollywood video.

 

[Mike]

A lot of shit is talked about confidence here without actually defining it but I see confidence as being yourself plus the potential to be who you can be and want to be. If you want to do something but don't do it because you are afraid, then in my opinion are not being your true self. When you saw that cute girl, did you have the desire to talk to her and know her? You say women just don't like who you are, but guy who wants to talk to that cute girl is the person you really are deep down.

Think of it this way, the next girl you approach could be the love of your life, or your future wife. Sure the chances are low, but you never know. Don't let opportunities like that pass you by.

What's the worst that can happen? She says no?

Don't be a bitch and get it done.

Yeah I know. It's just that my confidence is low, my social anxiety is pretty bad, and my material situaton sucks. My mind automatically finds 100 reasons not to approach them, by the time I begin to get over it they're long gone. It's easy to think of reasons someome wouldn't like me, and I've been thinking this way for over 20 years, so it's very ingrained. We'll see if improving my situation will maybe give me more confidence in time.