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You have to be at least somewhat delusional. As soon as you realize anybody could flatten you on any given night, you’re going to lose.
I’ve never competed in MMA but I played and fought at a high level in hockey and it’s pretty much the same. There used to be a guy who I played minor hockey with that went onto major junior on a different team than me and he was insanely tough but he got beat good once and was never the same, getting sent down and changing his entire game.
Once you lose that confidence to make things happen, you’re going to lose. The delusional stuff helps you cope with reality. I used to tell myself after a loss I could beat anyone even though deep down I knew that probably wasn’t true. I’d make excuses (in my head, not outloud!) and tell myself next time it would be different and most of the time it was.
I’ve never competed in MMA but I played and fought at a high level in hockey and it’s pretty much the same. There used to be a guy who I played minor hockey with that went onto major junior on a different team than me and he was insanely tough but he got beat good once and was never the same, getting sent down and changing his entire game.
Once you lose that confidence to make things happen, you’re going to lose. The delusional stuff helps you cope with reality. I used to tell myself after a loss I could beat anyone even though deep down I knew that probably wasn’t true. I’d make excuses (in my head, not outloud!) and tell myself next time it would be different and most of the time it was.