That being said, does anyone want a damn match?
Your requests are getting middled which is why it seems tough to get matches.
There is a lot of drama surrounding your challenges. Without even trying to assign any blame for why, there just is.
The guys who thrive on social media drama and are trying to hype themselves up on the internet tend to be up and coming pro types. But with respect, those guys have been beating you easily in matches so far. So at this point I don't see much incentive for them to continue to take you up.
Then you have guys like me. I am a regular black belt I would say. I think we could have a cool match for sure. I've seen your vids, and I respect the skills you bring.
But the guys like me just don't want the drama man. I'm a 30 year old man. I have a real job, a house, a wife, a 3 year old son, and a baby daughter on the way next month. I can't tell my family "Hey, I'm flying to Boston for an internet challenge in Harvard's gym in front of a couple dozen people. But don't worry -- it will probably end up as a poorly written BJJEE article, and then I'll be famous!"
So there probably aren't going to be a ton of takers for your challenges at this point.
I am competing in the summer, but it's IBJJF and I know that's a nonstarter for you. So I don't really know what else I can do.
What I can say is that if you stop by the Pittsburgh area, you're welcome at the gym. You can do no gi with heel hooks and that's all fine. If it's gi, you can wear your black belt, line up with us, and we'll treat you like any other black belt. You can probably guest teach that day too if you'd like since we usually do that.
Plus you could roll with me too, which I think would be pretty cool since you seem to have a unique style. I like different looks. But at this point in my life I'm just not interested in crazy challenge matches anymore. Maybe ten years ago when I was a blue belt.
Anyway, just putting the invitation out there in case you're ever in town. You are welcome at the gym bro. There won't be any bullshit. Just training and getting better.
Take care.