If it was serious i would refuse unless there is potentially something serious between u ane said ex.I have turned down some good ass before because it was a close friends ex and they dated for 3 yrs
She was literally on my lap screaming "i want to fuck you right now " at a party in front of our group of friends. Couldn't do it (and she was a legit socal 8)
No, nobody ever did that to me, nor I to them. I don't hang around the type of crowd where this type of thing would occur.
I agree with this actually.
Though technically there's nothing wrong with it, I would never do it and would not expect that any of my real friends would do that to me.
I try to surround myself with people who are ambitious and have a sense of integrity. I like for my social circle, much like my family tree, to extend outward not inward. If my friends only have the ambition and class to date people who were already attached to somebody in my circle, I would have to wonder about them.
There are exceptions and sometimes it's actually real love, but in this type of situation that is rarely the case.
Most of the time it's just somebody trying to get back at somebody.
Some girls are pass around hoes due to being groupies to your social circle. Hoes be loving the crew. I have no problem smashing a chick that my boy smashed nor do I have a problem with one of my boys smashing a chick who I smashed. That being said, finding out that one of my boys is smashing or dating a girl who I used to have strong feelings for and whom I dated for a while would probably piss me off momentarily, but then I'd get over it. I guess it also depends on how long ago to the current situation the break up was. One of my boys getting with my ex of 3 years ago wouldn't get me heated at all, but if the break up was only a could weeks - a couple months ago and he hit it or is dating her, it would get to me.
had a problem with a former friend getting in a relationship with my ex wife of 12 years.
solved it by dropping both scumbags.
in my opinion, people should find there own pond to piss in.
It's simple guy code... And I bet about 90% of you claiming you'd have no problem with it because you're so "Alpha" would be hurt if it happened and you once really cared about the girl in question.
Me and my friends don't talk to or hang around our friends girls if they're not there, with very few exceptions. Once that relationship is over, so is the girls friendship with the group.
Recently, my friend got dumped by this crazy hot, incredibly nice girl because he was being a douche and cheating on her. Even though the girl is awesome, none of us talk to her anymore. She then invited me out for 'Nacho's and beer' over FB. I didn't go, because that's about as shady as it gets. It's about respect.
Good friends > Random girls
This is a gentleman that understands code and respect.
Damn, see that right there is pretty wrong. A friend getting it with a ex wife of 12 years? Pretty fubared. They still together?