Sorry I'm not father and I don't have any daughters lol, but the thread was making me think about what I consider a loser so x:
The abusive types that you've already mentioned are always my -scum of the earth losers- lol.
So aside from that, guys who are immature. As in can't take responsibility for their own actions and their lives being how they are. I've known a couple guys like this. They felt everything was their parents' faults. This would even include things like them losing their jobs, which their parents literally had nothing to do with (more was bc they skipped days, slept in, bad attitude, etc). Also guys that are immature emotionally, like constantly having piss baby tantrums when they don't get their way, they sulk and pout when somebody says something to them that they don't like, etc.
This may piggyback on the abusive thing, but I do not respect men that don't do anything to help when they see others being abused or mistreated. So to me they're nearly as bad as the guy that's hitting around the chick (like idk what's wrong with you if you're okay with that happening right in front of you). So yeah, hello loserville.
Dudes that date way, way younger than themselves. If you're thirty n you're seeking relationships with 17 year olds or Ive found out you have in the past . . . Goodbye. Here you've got the creep factor, and I also feel like it says something about their maturity and emotional intelligence. Not good things ftr. He's a loser.
Guys that party. I know it's a common thing but, eh. Something just doesn't look good to me about a dude throwing/attending house parties, getting stupid wasted, and acting like a shit. I feel this is more for teenagers and not adults.
I've actually known all these types, and none were appealing. And it's as if these were red flags for other unappealing behaviours and such.