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Ever caught anyone carrying out a affair?

OP: if you feel like you need to do something, send an anonymous email
 
Nope and I hope I never don't. The less you know the better you sleep.
 
Yes my boss wife is sleeping with a guy she works with. Funny thing is he used to work with the guy few years ago. So we all know his wife is having an affair with the guy and she even convinced him to hire his brother. He came up to us the other day saying guess who i saw in my living room, he mentions the guys name and say he works in the same place as my wife and we just look at each other. My boss is the biggest liar you will ever meet and he's about to fire me, i intend to fuck him over by saying ask your friend(another manager) what that guy was doing in your living room and I would not let him in my house and leave it at there. I want him to be all over the place and ask his mate why he has not been telling him. You may think im a bad guy, but this guy is the biggest piece of shit and like I said he's about to fire me.

Do it,you'll actually be doing him a favor.
 
I wouldn't really care if I had such information but i'd tell a friend because I wouldn't want them getting hurt.
Yet delivering that information will cause him pain. Conundrum.
 
My best friends girlfriend repeatedly tried to get more and I alone the other night while at a party, succeeding once. I shut her down though, even though she's hot and I'm single haha. Love Eric too much for that<33
 
I've never caught anyone but I've known enough people on either side of the story. If someone I know is the cheater, I stay out of it. If someone I know is being cheated on, I only say something if my friend will know I knew. But I'll probably drop mad hints short of straight snitching.
 
My wife had a friend that was a semi pro bowler. She invited her to a tournament in Reno. While there my wife found out that her friend had an affair with another bowler previously and was screwing around with another dude during that trip. Apparently everyone at those tournaments screws around. The guy her friend was with previously tried to pick up my wife.

Anyway, the tournament was recorded via webcast and the friend's husband was watching. Nothing incriminating, but he did notice his wife hanging around the one guy a lot. One night before they flew back the husband asked my wife if anything was going on, that he was suspicious. My wife basically spilled the beans. The flight home was apparently very uncomfortable and when they got back the friend and her husband basically started blaming my wife for the whole situation.

So my wife ended up losing a couple friends because she got blamed for trying to ruin a marriage. Especially since the friend ended up pregnant (don't know who the father is, guess the husband didn't want to question it).

So again, no good will come of you saying something and potentially some bad could come of it if you say something.

The husband is such a joke.He has to live his whole life as one.
 
My friend was cheating my female friend with some ho. I caught him in the act and he said: "Chill, I doesn't matter, it's all fun"

Needless to say, that I slapped the fuck out of him. He actually confessed to his girlfriend the next day. They broke up, and are in good terms.

I'm guessing that "bros before hoes" doesn't mean much to you ?
 
man. i totally dig that. try to enjoy it for as long as you can, but when the bad starts outweighing the good, remember what she did to that other guy.

Thanks man very true. I think I'm gonna cool it with her anyways. She weirds me out. This morning as we are laying there in bed she informs me (confirms what my buddy said) that she has "been around" and I wanna say she even said "and I mean been around." I asked her why she felt the need to divulge so much information like that to me despite how many times I've asked her to quit.

On top of that the **** said "Ugh 311 sucks" this morning, after telling her it was my favorite band. I told her I was never talking to her again. She thought I was kidding but it really affected my opinion towards her. That's a sin to me.
 
Thanks man very true. I think I'm gonna cool it with her anyways. She weirds me out. This morning as we are laying there in bed she informs me (confirms what my buddy said) that she has "been around" and I wanna say she even said "and I mean been around." I asked her why she felt the need to divulge so much information like that to me despite how many times I've asked her to quit.

On top of that the **** said "Ugh 311 sucks" this morning, after telling her it was my favorite band. I told her I was never talking to her again. She thought I was kidding but it really affected my opinion towards her. That's a sin to me.

do you ever think she says those sorts of things just to get a rise out of you? it certainly sounds that way to me. i bet if you acted like it didn't bother you, she'd probably stop. then again, she might stop sleeping with you too.

it's funny that her saying she thinks 311 sucks was the last straw. it hardly bothers me when people say they don't like the same artists as me. but none of the other stuff was enough.
 
My wife's friend is currently cheating and was caught cheating a couple of years ago. Her husband is a good guy and I feel bad for him. Too bad is wife always was and is a ho. The first time she got caught was because of my wife. She text the cheating friend that she didnt want to be used as an alibi for her friend to go get laid. The husband read the text and his suspicions were validated. We see the whole thing getting played out once again.
 
My wife's friend is currently cheating and was caught cheating a couple of years ago. Her husband is a good guy and I feel bad for him. Too bad is wife always was and is a ho. The first time she got caught was because of my wife. She text the cheating friend that she didnt want to be used as an alibi for her friend to go get laid. The husband read the text and his suspicions were validated. We see the whole thing getting played out once again.

thanks for proving my point from earlier. usually when someone gets cheated on, it's not the first or the last time.
 
One of my best friends was carrying on an affair for almost two years. After he told me, it made it very awkard for me when he came over with his family. She eventually found out, but I suspect that she's known for a long time. Anyway, I'm surprised that she and he are actually trying to work it out. But, we rarely see them anymore.
 
One of my best friends was carrying on an affair for almost two years. After he told me, it made it very awkard for me when he came over with his family. She eventually found out, but I suspect that she's known for a long time. Anyway, I'm surprised that she and he are actually trying to work it out. But, we rarely see them anymore.

that s.o.b. probably blamed it on you.
 
Got a friend whose been with his gf for a while and been cheating on her for a while. Has one girl on the side who he doesn't want to give up and just had a baby with his gf. All of our friends know except any gfs who might snitch him out.

Sucks because the girl is the sweetest and nicest; goes to church and will do anything for her bf whose cheating on her. She has suspicions but I guess since they just had a baby she's willing to overlook things to have a traditional family.

I would never say anything but I hope that either he stops or gets caught. It's a shame that nice people are so easily taken advantaged of.
 
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It's a shame that nice people are so easily taken advantaged of.

Well I've just caught my wife having an affair. Definitely not pleasant. This will end in a divorce as I've always made clear that this is one thing I will never tolerate.

With hindsight, all the clues were there. I just would give her the benefit of the doubt.

It's also really ironic considering how poorly she viewed other people that would cheat in their relationship. Anyway... on to greener pastures.
 
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