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Ever caught anyone carrying out a affair?

If I found out that my girlfriend/wife was cheating on me and that my friends knew I would be absolutely crushed.

Imagine the trust issues that would stem from having your partner cheat on you and your friends knowingly allowed it continue to happen.

If I knew of one of my friends being cheated on I would be obligated to tell them but otherwise it's none of my business.
 
She was holding me back, but you RAISE ME UP!

Josh Groban? Anyone?

Anyone?
 
you were cheating on one hand with the other? :eek:

that's going to make things pretty awkward.

The worst part is that I know my right hand is better, WAY better, but I go to the left because she's new and fresh and different... I know it's fucked up, but I just can't stop it. I look at my right hand and I see a boring old used up thing while I look at the left and see this young exciting thing just bursting with new energy.

The worst part is that my right hand hits so much fuckign harder than my left. I'm genuinely afraid for the safety of my left hand once the right one finds out. I know, I shouldn't have involved lefty since I knew righty would kill her, I'm a terrible person...
 
damn. she could have at least done you the common courtesy of waiting until you were gone.



you were cheating on one hand with the other? :eek:

that's going to make things pretty awkward.

yeah I totally agree with you. We did it for the first time on Xmas. Then Friday and Saturday. Saturday I got absolutely SHITFACED, remember going down on her, then I woke up in the bed alone. I had no clue what happened and there was a condom on the floor. When she came back in the room I told her I didn't remember coming over, which she didn't like. She then informed me that when I "went to sleep" (<--- very nice of her, one of the only nice things she's said) she called him and told him we had been hooking up and he dumped her.
 
I could've had the courtesy of not helping her cheat on her bf, but he treated her like shit, didn[t get her an xmas present, and I hadn't gotten laid in almost 2 years. So fuck it.
 
The worst part is that I know my right hand is better, WAY better, but I go to the left because she's new and fresh and different... I know it's fucked up, but I just can't stop it. I look at my right hand and I see a boring old used up thing while I look at the left and see this young exciting thing just bursting with new energy.

The worst part is that my right hand hits so much fuckign harder than my left. I'm genuinely afraid for the safety of my left hand once the right one finds out. I know, I shouldn't have involved lefty since I knew righty would kill her, I'm a terrible person...
dude you have major issues.
 
If I found out that my girlfriend/wife was cheating on me and that my friends knew I would be absolutely crushed.

Imagine the trust issues that would stem from having your partner cheat on you and your friends knowingly allowed it continue to happen.

If I knew of one of my friends being cheated on I would be obligated to tell them but otherwise it's none of my business.

trust issues? it's not your friends' responsibility to deal with your relationship and its problems (or vise versa). the only people you should be mad would be your wife/girlfriend and maybe the person they were sleeping with.

The worst part is that I know my right hand is better, WAY better, but I go to the left because she's new and fresh and different... I know it's fucked up, but I just can't stop it. I look at my right hand and I see a boring old used up thing while I look at the left and see this young exciting thing just bursting with new energy.

The worst part is that my right hand hits so much fuckign harder than my left. I'm genuinely afraid for the safety of my left hand once the right one finds out. I know, I shouldn't have involved lefty since I knew righty would kill her, I'm a terrible person...

you selfish prick. you only had one thing on your mind when you strayed and you never bothered to think of the consequences. now, just for a few moments of pleasure you've ruined 3 lives. i hope you're happy with what you've done. :(

yeah I totally agree with you. We did it for the first time on Xmas. Then Friday and Saturday. Saturday I got absolutely SHITFACED, remember going down on her, then I woke up in the bed alone. I had no clue what happened and there was a condom on the floor. When she came back in the room I told her I didn't remember coming over, which she didn't like. She then informed me that when I "went to sleep" (<--- very nice of her, one of the only nice things she's said) she called him and told him we had been hooking up and he dumped her.

i'd stay on her good side if i were you. or avoid her altogether.
 
I could've had the courtesy of not helping her cheat on her bf, but he treated her like shit, didn[t get her an xmas present, and I hadn't gotten laid in almost 2 years. So fuck it.

wha? you were doing both of them a favor in reality.
 
this has now got to bizzare for me.

says the guy who was turned on by his wife sleeping with other men.

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Lol this thread is such a mess in so many ways and in different directions.

I guess all I can really say is that everybody's human. No sex is less or more fucked up than the other, and the goal in life is to find people, regardless of gender, who will care about you, respect you and treat you right. When you let people in that don't do these things into your life, you in turn, also turn wacko.
 
trust issues? it's not your friends' responsibility to deal with your relationship and its problems (or vise versa). the only people you should be mad would be your wife/girlfriend and maybe the person they were sleeping with.

Well I do trust all my friends and would expect them to tell me if they knew something was going on.

I haven't been cheated on so it's not like I'm a scorned ex or anything, I'd just expect my friends to not let me be made a fool of behind my back.
 
Well I do trust all my friends and would expect them to tell me if they knew something was going on.

I haven't been cheated on so it's not like I'm a scorned ex or anything, I'd just expect my friends to not let me be made a fool of behind my back.

like i said, it's not their responsibility. if your wife or girlfriend was cheating on you (hypothetically) it'd be up to the two of you to hash it out. everyone else would do best to mind their business.
 
Lol this thread is such a mess in so many ways and in different directions.

I guess all I can really say is that everybody's human. No sex is less or more fucked up than the other, and the goal in life is to find people, regardless of gender, who will care about you, respect you and treat you right. When you let people in that don't do these things into your life, you in turn, also turn wacko.

testify, frere.
 
Do people really think guys who show up in ferraris can pick up chicks in real life? Is this world parrelel to some 80s movie? lol
 
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