Ever caught anyone carrying out a affair?

[Nonsense]

no,my point was that there are many women how only have there looks to go on, and they do this ruthlessly.and to the other pot with the pic,is that you and your wife?

Just like some men go off their looks, or their money, or their personalities, or their power, or their sense of humour.

People play to their strengths. It just so happens that people who prioritize their own looks likely prioritize something materialistic, like income, in potential partners.

 

[Evangelion]

women love money, good looking men, tall men, and intelligent men? Who would of thought?

Thank god I am the epitome of all four.

As to have I caught anyone having an affair? Well anyone who has male friends has probably had a friend or 8 that have cheated on their significant others.

 

[neverwas]

if i was married to christina hendricks, yeah :wink:

who's she?i'm not up on celebrity.

 

[Bolshevik***]

Just like some men go off their looks, or their money, or their personalities, or their power, or their sense of humour.

People play to their strengths. It just so happens that people who prioritize their own looks likely prioritize something materialistic, like income, in potential partners.

how is a woman who uses her looks to get a man with money worse than a man who uses his money to get a woman with looks? :icon_conf

they deserve each other. :icon_idea

 

[AgeofEmpires2**]

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This is what you should do.

 

[Bolshevik***]

who's she?i'm not up on celebrity.

she's a voluptuous gal who's been in films and on television. you might remember her from her roles in mad men, or driver.

 

[Nonsense]

how is a woman who uses her looks to get a man with money worse than a man who uses his money to get a woman with looks? :icon_conf

they deserve each other. :icon_idea

Not worse. The same.

And not all that different from a man who uses his sense of humour to get a really kind girl, and a girl who uses kindness to get a guy who makes her laugh. Just different priorities.

 

[highkicknomore]

the problem is that the husband is a douche-bag. he was too sappy over his wife, and rather than blame her for what happened and end the marriage, he wanted desperately to cling to whatever notion of romance he still had vestigially. that's why he redirected the blame at your wife. the best thing she could have done was not say anything though. obviously it didn't help the situation, as she's the one that ended up getting ostracized.

That husband is a bitch. If I was married and a person told me my wife was cheating on me (and it's true), I'd be forever grateful and dump the wife.

Instead he blames the friend that was honest to him. What a fucking pussy. I've heard plenty of stories like this where the do gooder becomes the villain because the victim is in denial.

 

[000000000000000]

There are gold diggers out there for sure, but most normal women when it comes to money just want a man to be financially settled because it means security for them. They just don't want to have to worry about not being able to not pay the bills/take care of the family, etc.

 

[neverwas]

she's a voluptuous gal who's been in films and on television. you might remember her from her roles in mad men, or driver.

nope,not seen any of those.and bolshivek your dead right.

 

[Bolshevik***]

Not worse. The same.

And not all that different from a man who uses his sense of humour to get a really kind girl, and a girl who uses kindness to get a guy who makes her laugh. Just different priorities.

maybe, maybe not. at least their personalities are something more intrinsic. if that changed, you could see someone ending a relationship over that. a person ending a relationship with someone else because they no longer have a lot of money, or because they aren't as good looking as they used to be is worse in my opinion.

 

[Scrody]

Plenty of times.

 

[neverwas]

There are gold diggers out there for sure, but most normal women when it comes to money just want a man to be financially settled because it means security for them. They just don't want to have to worry about not being able to not pay the bills/take care of the family, etc.

so what your saying is women can't make the sacrifices a man makes to have a family,cause she wants to sit on her fat ass and live off what a man can earn?

 

[Simian Raticus]

I've not so much caught my friend cheating but he's a hellacious womaniser who always has a steady girlfriend while he's out spreading his love. They're always pleasant and friendly girls and I feel sorry for them.

I'd sure like to save them some heartbreak and warn them off but I think the rule of "mind your own fucken business" is paramount in these situations.

 

[Nonsense]

so what your saying is women can't make the sacrifices a man makes to have a family,cause she wants to sit on her fat ass and live off what a man can earn?

Haha. You are precious. No, I doubt very much that's what he meant.

 

[IIIIIIII]

Not worse. The same.

And not all that different from a man who uses his sense of humour to get a really kind girl, and a girl who uses kindness to get a guy who makes her laugh. Just different priorities.

agreed.

 

[minute bull]

a person ending a relationship with someone else because they no longer have a lot of money, or because they aren't as good looking as they used to be is worse in my opinion.

For what it's worth, you can see your point is a far cry from the original statement of contention:

a womans interest in her other half is in proportion to how much he earns.

 

[Bolshevik***]

For what it's worth, you can see your point is a far cry from the original statement of contention:

thanks for pointing that out. i feel like we sidetracked on a tangent.

 

[neverwas]

Haha. You are precious. No, I doubt very much that's what he meant.

you sure?how many times have you heard the same old strory of the wife fucking off with someone ele cause her old man was doing every shitty job under the sun to keep a standard of living to which she has become used to,and her excue i we never see each other.

 

[highkicknomore]

There are gold diggers out there for sure, but most normal women when it comes to money just want a man to be financially settled because it means security for them. They just don't want to have to worry about not being able to not pay the bills/take care of the family, etc.

This isn't true from experience. I have friends that are professional MMA fighters (King Of The Cage, Gladiator Challenge) and they have sugar mommas. These fighters don't make much and usually don't have a regular job besides bouncing at night.

People always say girls are attracted to financial stability. That's somewhat true but I think they're more attracted to personality more than anything.