Does your girl care if you watch porn?

[Cpt Migraine]

There's plenty of ethical porn available of that's the issue.

If she's worried about you comparing her to the porn models tell her you compare her to the whole of womankind all the time and you've chosen to be with her because she is the best of them willing to fuck you.

Wait, don't say that.

Again this is for children.. i know i'm not brad fucking pitt and as an adult i accept that.. the guy is better looking, richer, iconic etc.. if my woman gets of (she doesn't, she has shit taste in men) to him who the fuck am i to judge..

I don't have a 10 inch cock.. if she wants to watch some girl get fucked by a 10 incher who gives a shit.. it's just a fantasy.. the second you try to control someones mind you're in a really slippery slope..

If you have any self respect you can never treat your woman as "some chick" and cater to her sensitivities.. you need to hold her to the same standards as you do your best friends.. otherwise you're gonna be walking on eggshells all the time..

 

[MetalGearTrump]

One girl I messed with had the bright idea for us to go to a sex shop. I looked at some porn while we were in there and she got pissed.... wtf

 

[Alphaboy]

Are you whacking off and watching porn in front of her? How will she know if you're watching porn / jerking off?

This is a girl that's been in open relationships before and done anything you could ever think of in the bedroom.

She wants to be a freak and you a puritan, huh? Kinda reverse of how most guys want it.

 

[Based and White Pilled]

Again this is for children.. i know i'm not brad fucking pitt and as an adult i accept that.. the guy is better looking, richer, iconic etc.. if my woman gets of (she doesn't, she has shit taste in men) to him who the fuck am i to judge..

I don't have a 10 inch cock.. if she wants to watch some girl get fucked by a 10 incher who gives a shit.. it's just a fantasy.. the second you try to control someones mind you're in a really slippery slope..

If you have any self respect you can never treat your woman as "some chick" and cater to her sensitivities.. you need to hold her to the same standards as you do your best friends.. otherwise you're gonna be walking on eggshells all the time..

Wholeheartedly agree.

I would also highlight that the "who am I to judge? Don't try to control someone's mind" bit isn't some kind of "accept everyone for who they are" bullshit. You don't have to accept people who suck or who are fundamentally incompatible with you. You just need to recognize that you aren't going to change them and move on. Find someone that you can be open and honest with instead of trying to control the incompatible person.

 

[Cpt Migraine]

Wholeheartedly agree.

I would also highlight that the "who am I to judge? Don't try to control someone's mind" bit isn't some kind of "accept everyone for who they are" bullshit. You don't have to accept people who suck or who are fundamentally incompatible with you. You just need to recognize that you aren't going to change them and move on. Find someone that you can be open and honest with instead of trying to control the incompatible person.

Exactly that..

 

[Renard]

This applies to a child that you care about.. not an adult.. (oh and don't let children know you're watching porn btw.. the dog thing)

If the chick needs cognitive therapy from the man she's seeing about porn she's to fucking dumb to be relationship material..

Wow a girl is hung up about porn, stop the presses and put her in a mental institution. Lmao, it's not the big deal you make it out to be. Good luck finding a partner who isn't annoying about at least one thing.

 

[rearnakedchoke]

She is right. Porn is basically legal sex trafficking. Because it is legal, doesn’t make it right. The industry preys on vulnerable girls looking for help or acceptance and uses them up until they no longer need them. It’s quite vile and the fact that there is so much money in it makes you wonder how vile people are.

 

[terrapin]

Nah, if something as trivial as watching porn once a week is repulsive to a woman that's probably fucked a 100 dudes, had threesomes, attended sex parties etc..........I'm going to pull the cord.

This is nothing more than a control issue and insecurity. I've noticed this behavior a couple other times when she was PMSing. She freaked out that I was going to watch a football game with an out of town buddy at a bar instead of watching it at home. She said that the only reason I wanted to go to the sports bar down the street was because of the cute bartender. The actual reason was because my buddy is going through a divorce and wanted to vent.

that's fine on this particular person. insecurity is a good enough reason for you to stop watching porn though. unless your selfish gratification is worth more to you than the feelings of the person you care for and who cares for you.

 

[fingercuffs]

One girl I messed with had the bright idea for us to go to a sex shop. I looked at some porn while we were in there and she got pissed.... wtf

Did she buy anything?

 

[fingercuffs]

She is right. Porn is basically legal sex trafficking. Because it is legal, doesn’t make it right. The industry preys on vulnerable girls looking for help or acceptance and uses them up until they no longer need them. It’s quite vile and the fact that there is so much money in it makes you wonder how vile people are.

And amateur porn?

 

[Cpt Migraine]

Wow a girl is hung up about porn, stop the presses and put her in a mental institution. Lmao, it's not the big deal you make it out to be. Good luck finding a partner who isn't annoying about at least one thing.

Annoyed? Did you read the op?

Do you throw a tantrum and set ultimatums when you find 6 different glasses of water half full when you collect the dishes?

I don't.. i mutter "i'm living with a fucking teenage daughter" and then i collect the fucking glasses not to mention it because i make a little pile of socks by the sofa which would annoy anyone to..

I'm living with a partner that knows everything about me and appreciate my "dark sides" so thank you, i'm lucky i guess..

I don't have to hide or fight for anything..

 

[Goon Dog]

She's PMSing so I can't really say what to do here. Some girls get it way worse than others. I've known girls who get their period and they are the same person. Other girl get their period and any little thing will set them off. I've had my wife apologize to me quite a few times over one of her PMS tantrums.

My wife doesn't like that I watch porn and even made some with me to curb my need to watch random women. I still watch porn though.

Gonna need a link for ...research purposes.

 

[Goon Dog]

I don't know that I would give up a living, breathing sex partner so that I could continue to watch video of other people fucking. Just do it when she's not around and don't bring it up. Now, if this is an example of other controlling tendencies then it's a different matter.

 

[ModernMatt]

how the hell can watching porn be considered cheating? It's not like you're wanking it off to a video of her friend.

She doesn't want to have sex as often as you do from the sounds of it, so watch some porn...it's healthy. If a woman can't grasp this, then they shouldn't be in a relationship.

If she's insecure about it, then just tell her that you're looking for tips (not the penis) to do stuff in the bedroom.

 

[HydraCap3]

She does not. Fuck am I supposed to do when she's having "that time of the month?" Go swimming in the bloody pond? fuck that. I'm heading over to the tranny section on PornHub.

 

[rearnakedchoke]

And amateur porn?

Not sure. Let me check and get back to you.

 

[Alphaboy]

She is right. Porn is basically legal sex trafficking. Because it is legal, doesn’t make it right. The industry preys on vulnerable girls looking for help or acceptance and uses them up until they no longer need them. It’s quite vile and the fact that there is so much money in it makes you wonder how vile people are.

What do you reckon these vulnerable young girls with no skills would do if porn wasn't legal?

 

[fingercuffs]

Not sure. Let me check and get back to you.

Have fun!

 

[Phlog]

Again this is for children.. i know i'm not brad fucking pitt and as an adult i accept that.. the guy is better looking, richer, iconic etc.. if my woman gets of (she doesn't, she has shit taste in men) to him who the fuck am i to judge..

I don't have a 10 inch cock.. if she wants to watch some girl get fucked by a 10 incher who gives a shit.. it's just a fantasy.. the second you try to control someones mind you're in a really slippery slope..

If you have any self respect you can never treat your woman as "some chick" and cater to her sensitivities.. you need to hold her to the same standards as you do your best friends.. otherwise you're gonna be walking on eggshells all the time..

Not sure why your bringing up kids.

Whatever man, I don't think it matters much.

Sure a relationship shouldn't be one-sided, but a huge part, in fact the largest part of a successful relationship is the participants willingness to change for their partner.

I'm willing to concede to a partner that it ain't healthy, I wouldn't entirely agree but I'd be prepared to hear them out. Of course you hold your partner to higher standards than your friends, but likewise you should respect them more also.

 

[Cherry Brigand]

Porn ain't the issue young man. Being told what to do is. That and the double standard of her lap dog male friends that probably say the same stupid shit as you just did because they have no balls.

You know who else doesn't like being told what to do? Toddlers. Are you a toddler?