Does your girl care if you watch porn?

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  1. Hatorade Green Belt

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    So I entered a new relationship a few months back and last night I got into the topic of porn with my GF. She went off about how dehumanizing porn is and all the same shit most chicks say about porn. At one point, she asked me if I watched porn, and I said "well yeah" as if it was a silly question, and she lost her fucking shit. I told her it wasn't a daily thing, but that I watched porn once in a while if she wasn't around, and I was at my own place. She literally couldn't wrap her head around it and claims that it's just the same as cheating. This is a girl that's been in open relationships before and done anything you could ever think of in the bedroom. That's why I was like huh? It was really odd and took me off guard.

    Anyways, we proceeded to get in a huge argument where she claimed that porn was now destroying our relationship because she feels like I only see her as an object or a tool now. She's PMS city at the moment, so I'm taking everything she says with a grain of salt, but I would bet this was somewhat of a real argument and will probably continue a bit once she's back to normal.

    One of the things she said was that if I don't give up porn, she doesn't want to be with me because it makes her feel insecure. I told her that I would give up watching any porn if she quit hanging out with male friends that she has flat out said are in love with her because it makes me feel insecure (it doesn't, but I was trying to make a point). Obviously, this almost made her head explode, as she sees her opposite sex friendships as being completely acceptable even if said friend is sweet on her unlike porn. She even posed the question as to how I would feel if she were watching porn only to have me say "I would not give a shit whatsoever."

    The crazy part about all this is that this woman is 37 years old. Like, this is shit you get into when you're in HS or college. At almost 40, you would think these arguments about porn, male friends etc wouldn't exist.
    I know damn well if I had a female friend that was moderately attractive that had conceded that she had a crush on me that also talked shit about my girl on the regular, My GF would lose her fucking mind. Like that shit wouldn't even be a discussion. The double standards with all this are just laughable.
     
  2. RoyalTS Green Belt

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    Dump her. 37 my ass.
     
  3. Drain Bamage Guitar God 420

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    She's 37 year old woman living in a world that says your old when you're over 25.
    Hence why shes mad.

    The aging process isn't fun for them dude. It's 10x worse than what men go through on average. Especially pretty women, they lose it all.

    Kick her to the curb.
     
  4. Heart Break Kid Brown Belt Platinum Member

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    My girl let's me do whatever I want. She would never ever tell me what to do. Those words would never come close to coming out of her mouth or she knows what will happen. I've hit her plenty of times before and have no problem doing it again. She will be corrected. I will break her face if need be. Why? Because she doesn't exist.
     
  5. hohner Titanium Belt

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    I don't think it is as straightforward as yes or no. If my wife saw me watching some topless lesbians kissing I don't think she would have the same reaction as if she caught me watching a tranny in a donkey show.
     
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  6. Hatorade Green Belt

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    I'm finding that LOTS of women in their 30's and 40's are just as immature as chicks in their 20's. I would almost say that they're worse when it comes to the insecurity stuff.
     
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  7. Headkicktoleg Yellow Card Yellow Card

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    Sounds just like my ex.
     
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  8. Drain Bamage Guitar God 420

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    They actually get more immature as they age and the desperation sets in.

    Hot women in their 20's act classy as fuck because they are confident and getting thrown dick left and right.
     
  9. method115 Titanium Belt

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    She's PMSing so I can't really say what to do here. Some girls get it way worse than others. I've known girls who get their period and they are the same person. Other girl get their period and any little thing will set them off. I've had my wife apologize to me quite a few times over one of her PMS tantrums.

    My wife doesn't like that I watch porn and even made some with me to curb my need to watch random women. I still watch porn though.
     
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  10. CI Blue Belt

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    dude she was 37 and single for a reason. why waste your time?
     
  11. Cpt Migraine Never out of likes..

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    Yup.. topless lesbians kissing is really the gateway to trannies in donkey shows..

    Dying here.. thanks dude..
     
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  12. Provocateur Red Belt

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    That's why I only watch porn in the bathroom with the door locked.
     
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  13. Drain Bamage Guitar God 420

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    You went from the softest core to the most extreme there. What if she caught you watching regular 35 year old dude fucking a 19 year old chick porn?
     
  14. Cpt Migraine Never out of likes..

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    On topic..

    Fuck that shit.. if she's gonna throw a tantrum over something as trivial as porn it's not worth the hassle..

    She's probably gonna twist it into you chosing porn over her.. gonna be an awesome argument btw.. enjoy it like fine wine..
     
  15. fingercuffs VICTORIA CONCORDIA CRESCIT Platinum Member

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    Last time my other half found me watching porn it was suggested I come to bed for us to make our own. Really doesn't care
    I wouldn't flip my lid if my spouse watched it at all...if anything it enhances your bedroom antics.
     
  16. jx820 Red Belt

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    I've never been with a woman who cared. Almost all the women I've been with watched a little porn themselves. It's way werider to me to hear someone isn't at least curious to watch a little here and there.

    This girl sounds crazy, and you're probably just scratching the surface. Run.
     
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  17. Drain Bamage Guitar God 420

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    Most 30+ women are not gonna like their dude watching porn because they know that sex with them must be a dissapointing experience.

    And it is. You know it is. Thats why your watching porn and jerking off instead of fucking your wife.

    Because she doesnt look good. You dont want that big ass spread in front of you, that smelly 40 year old same cunt you been fucking for years and she probably doesnt shave it well anymore, nasty middle age woman body and leather like skin COME ON MAN WHY YOU WATCHING PORN?!?!
     
  18. Hatorade Green Belt

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    I get it
    Girls own the world in their 20's. They still wield a bit of power in their 30's. By 40, the ball is absolutely in our court. By 50, women a basically invisible to anything but lonely old men.

    My girl is not aging the best. She's a curvy woman, and women her shape start to lose their shape around her age. I've seen pics of her in her 20's in a swimsuit, and she had a flat stomach. At almost 40, she's still got a pretty amazing ass on her if you like big curvy women, but she's also got the mid section and tits of a bigger girl that age. Just watching her try to find an outfit to wear is pretty cringy
     
  19. Ichibanner Brown Belt

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    Do you want to continue a relationship with a controlling and insecure woman? I wouldn't. Concessions could be made for a smoking hot Billionairess with a crazy libido but I doubt that's what you're dealing with.

    Have one last attempt at being rational. Tell her that either she or porn will meet your "needs". If she was that open in the past then it would suck if she doesn't want to be really intimate in your relationship.

    Women like to ignore the fact that sex is the reason we talked to and made time for them in the first place. No straight male with a healthy level of testosterone decides to date a woman for the conversation and personal insights.

    EDIT: Women also tend to let THEIR hangups and insecurities get in the way of the romance. I know this first hand. It's the "If I don't think I'm attractive then there's no way he does" scenario. And you won't change their mind no matter how much affection you give or how many times you tell them otherwise. Been there, suffered through that.
     
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  20. gnyg Yellow Belt

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    I watch some porn alone, and I watch some with my girlfriend (such a hassle to find good porn she like). I also have good sex with her as well. As long as she gets the d she’s happy.
     
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