Does your girl care if you watch porn?

hohner said:
I don't think it is as straightforward as yes or no. If my wife saw me watching some topless lesbians kissing I don't think she would have the same reaction as if she caught me watching a tranny in a donkey show.
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So, like mine, she gets more aroused by the second one?
 
Lol. My wife and I have been together for 15 years. She’d probably prefer me to tug one off to porn at 3am rather than waking her up.
 
She kind of gets shitty about it when the kids are around. She's a bitch tho
 
Wife of 20+ years has zero issue with it. Especially if she’s unable to provide services for the evening.
 
Why watch porn when you have a gf or wife?
Why watch porn anyway, it's very boring?
Why admit you watch porn to anyone, why wouldn't you feel embarrassed about doing so?
 
Hatorade said:
So I entered a new relationship a few months back and last night I got into the topic of porn with my GF. She went off about how dehumanizing porn is and all the same shit most chicks say about porn. At one point, she asked me if I watched porn, and I said "well yeah" as if it was a silly question, and she lost her fucking shit. I told her it wasn't a daily thing, but that I watched porn once in a while if she wasn't around, and I was at my own place. She literally couldn't wrap her head around it and claims that it's just the same as cheating. This is a girl that's been in open relationships before and done anything you could ever think of in the bedroom. That's why I was like huh? It was really odd and took me off guard.

Anyways, we proceeded to get in a huge argument where she claimed that porn was now destroying our relationship because she feels like I only see her as an object or a tool now. She's PMS city at the moment, so I'm taking everything she says with a grain of salt, but I would bet this was somewhat of a real argument and will probably continue a bit once she's back to normal.

One of the things she said was that if I don't give up porn, she doesn't want to be with me because it makes her feel insecure. I told her that I would give up watching any porn if she quit hanging out with male friends that she has flat out said are in love with her because it makes me feel insecure (it doesn't, but I was trying to make a point). Obviously, this almost made her head explode, as she sees her opposite sex friendships as being completely acceptable even if said friend is sweet on her unlike porn. She even posed the question as to how I would feel if she were watching porn only to have me say "I would not give a shit whatsoever."

The crazy part about all this is that this woman is 37 years old. Like, this is shit you get into when you're in HS or college. At almost 40, you would think these arguments about porn, male friends etc wouldn't exist.
I know damn well if I had a female friend that was moderately attractive that had conceded that she had a crush on me that also talked shit about my girl on the regular, My GF would lose her fucking mind. Like that shit wouldn't even be a discussion. The double standards with all this are just laughable.
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I'm taking it your around same age as her or a bit older.
If you planned to be with her longterm, she will be 55 when you're like 57.

Time to let go. Unless you're really in love or some shit. Even then you should think whether she can just be a friend.
Women age much faster, if you are past 35 you got to get a gf 10-15 years younger for it to be worth your time longterm.
 
TheMaster said:
I'm taking it your around same age as her or a bit older.
If you planned to be with her longterm, she will be 55 when you're like 57.

Time to let go. Unless you're really in love or some shit. Even then you should think whether she can just be a friend.
Women age much faster, if you are past 35 you got to get a gf 10-15 years younger for it to be worth your time longterm.
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Oh shush. "longterm". You're talking like it's something you sign up for at Walgreens.
Where did the fun of having fun, making out and falling in love go?

Some of you are so matter of fact and boring about it.
 
fingercuffs said:
No, he really is pure as the driven. I’m not gullible and like I said he knows I would be fine, I was watching it for hours a night for months till recently. It isn’t like he would have anything to be ashamed of. And he knew I was was a bit of a porn addict.

gonna sound like I am blowing sunshine up my ass but really all he wants to see getting laid, by him.
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Why'd you stop
 
John Mabrey said:
Why'd you stop
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I got a job. I used to go to bed way later than him and had a lot of time on my hands. Now Mon-Fri I just want to get my kit off, get my PJs on and veg out. I'm sometimes asleep at 8 on the sofa during the week.
I definitely had a thing for a few months though.
 
fingercuffs said:
I got a job. I used to go to bed way later than him and had a lot of time on my hands. Now Mon-Fri I just want to get my kit off, get my PJs on and veg out. I'm sometimes asleep at 8 on the sofa during the week.
I definitely had a thing for a few months though.
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8! Wtf
 
Now since working from home I get up at 915 but go back to bed after checking if I got any emails or messages, I'll go to bed anywhere between 4 to 7
 
It's usually all or nothing.

My wife watches porn and I've had ex gf's that like watching porn. But the ones that don't, hate it.
 
CrimsonFan said:
My current girl said she didn't care about it at all when we first started dating.

Then over time she started to care about it more and more. Will get mad sometimes and talk about how she went through my phone and sees all the porn I look at. Will say stuff like "I should be enough for you".

And then I catch her looking at it! Pretty retarded. Sometimes we will watch it together but it's not all that fun tbh.
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Has she gained weight? Maybe she noticed you noticing other women. There is probably an underlying reason behind her new found insecurity.
 
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