Does your girl care if you watch porn?

Hatorade said:
So I entered a new relationship a few months back and last night I got into the topic of porn with my GF. She went off about how dehumanizing porn is and all the same shit most chicks say about porn. At one point, she asked me if I watched porn, and I said "well yeah" as if it was a silly question, and she lost her fucking shit. I told her it wasn't a daily thing, but that I watched porn once in a while if she wasn't around, and I was at my own place. She literally couldn't wrap her head around it and claims that it's just the same as cheating. This is a girl that's been in open relationships before and done anything you could ever think of in the bedroom. That's why I was like huh? It was really odd and took me off guard.

Anyways, we proceeded to get in a huge argument where she claimed that porn was now destroying our relationship because she feels like I only see her as an object or a tool now. She's PMS city at the moment, so I'm taking everything she says with a grain of salt, but I would bet this was somewhat of a real argument and will probably continue a bit once she's back to normal.

One of the things she said was that if I don't give up porn, she doesn't want to be with me because it makes her feel insecure. I told her that I would give up watching any porn if she quit hanging out with male friends that she has flat out said are in love with her because it makes me feel insecure (it doesn't, but I was trying to make a point). Obviously, this almost made her head explode, as she sees her opposite sex friendships as being completely acceptable even if said friend is sweet on her unlike porn. She even posed the question as to how I would feel if she were watching porn only to have me say "I would not give a shit whatsoever."

The crazy part about all this is that this woman is 37 years old. Like, this is shit you get into when you're in HS or college. At almost 40, you would think these arguments about porn, male friends etc wouldn't exist.
I know damn well if I had a female friend that was moderately attractive that had conceded that she had a crush on me that also talked shit about my girl on the regular, My GF would lose her fucking mind. Like that shit wouldn't even be a discussion. The double standards with all this are just laughable.
Click to expand...

Unless she gives the best blowjobs ever, I say bail. She'll find more stuff to be insecure about while keeping potential side-dick at her beck and call.
 
Most girls don't like it. My wife caught me jerking off the other day. I left my home-office window and blinds open. I forgot what time it was and the kids were about to come home. She banged on the window ferociously and started yelling. It was an awkward rest of the day.
 
mmafan2000 said:
Most girls don't like it. My wife caught me jerking off the other day. I left my home-office window and blinds open. I forgot what time it was and the kids were about to come home. She banged on the window ferociously and started yelling. It was an awkward rest of the day.
Click to expand...

Tell her it was just a zoom meeting and that everyone's doing it now.
 
My ex was open to it. We’d put on a dvd once in a while. But she would always want to watch a good amount of it before we’d do anything
 
What if you watch porn with the girl in the porn?
 
My current girl said she didn't care about it at all when we first started dating.

Then over time she started to care about it more and more. Will get mad sometimes and talk about how she went through my phone and sees all the porn I look at. Will say stuff like "I should be enough for you".

And then I catch her looking at it! Pretty retarded. Sometimes we will watch it together but it's not all that fun tbh.
 
Hatorade said:
So I entered a new relationship a few months back and last night I got into the topic of porn with my GF. She went off about how dehumanizing porn is and all the same shit most chicks say about porn. At one point, she asked me if I watched porn, and I said "well yeah" as if it was a silly question, and she lost her fucking shit. I told her it wasn't a daily thing, but that I watched porn once in a while if she wasn't around, and I was at my own place. She literally couldn't wrap her head around it and claims that it's just the same as cheating. This is a girl that's been in open relationships before and done anything you could ever think of in the bedroom. That's why I was like huh? It was really odd and took me off guard.

Anyways, we proceeded to get in a huge argument where she claimed that porn was now destroying our relationship because she feels like I only see her as an object or a tool now. She's PMS city at the moment, so I'm taking everything she says with a grain of salt, but I would bet this was somewhat of a real argument and will probably continue a bit once she's back to normal.

One of the things she said was that if I don't give up porn, she doesn't want to be with me because it makes her feel insecure. I told her that I would give up watching any porn if she quit hanging out with male friends that she has flat out said are in love with her because it makes me feel insecure (it doesn't, but I was trying to make a point). Obviously, this almost made her head explode, as she sees her opposite sex friendships as being completely acceptable even if said friend is sweet on her unlike porn. She even posed the question as to how I would feel if she were watching porn only to have me say "I would not give a shit whatsoever."

The crazy part about all this is that this woman is 37 years old. Like, this is shit you get into when you're in HS or college. At almost 40, you would think these arguments about porn, male friends etc wouldn't exist.
I know damn well if I had a female friend that was moderately attractive that had conceded that she had a crush on me that also talked shit about my girl on the regular, My GF would lose her fucking mind. Like that shit wouldn't even be a discussion. The double standards with all this are just laughable.
Click to expand...
If she doesn’t want you to watch it, don’t. Bang her instead.
 
Hatorade said:
I get it
Girls own the world in their 20's. They still wield a bit of power in their 30's. By 40, the ball is absolutely in our court. By 50, women a basically invisible to anything but lonely old men.

My girl is not aging the best. She's a curvy woman, and women her shape start to lose their shape around her age. I've seen pics of her in her 20's in a swimsuit, and she had a flat stomach. At almost 40, she's still got a pretty amazing ass on her if you like big curvy women, but she's also got the mid section and tits of a bigger girl that age. Just watching her try to find an outfit to wear is pretty cringy
Click to expand...
Oh bs 50 year old women are getting banged by younger guys left and right now lol
 
CrimsonFan said:
My current girl said she didn't care about it at all when we first started dating.

Then over time she started to care about it more and more. Will get mad sometimes and talk about how she went through my phone and sees all the porn I look at. Will say stuff like "I should be enough for you".

And then I catch her looking at it! Pretty retarded. Sometimes we will watch it together but it's not all that fun tbh.
Click to expand...


stop watching it and you will both be way happier.
 
BFoe said:
My gf doesn’t care at all. She also likes porn. There’s something inherently untrustworthy about a person who doesn’t, imo.
Click to expand...
My other half after being together for 21 years I know he doesn’t watch it and is the most trustworthy loyal person I have ever known.
 
spacegnome said:
stop watching it and you will both be way happier.
Click to expand...
It's more of something I'll use to quickly bust a nut when she's not around.. because without it I can't really be bothered to jack off to my thoughts and it gets painful after a while if I dont release

I'm never like going to the other room when she's around and jerking off in secret. That's when its problamatic imo
 
BFoe said:
<{fry}>
A guy whom you swear never watches porn?
Click to expand...
I know. I know it sounds bizarre. I’m the perv, not him. At all. And 100% know after 21 years that he doesn’t. He probably jerks off if I’m sick or whatever but I know for fact he doesn’t. If he did he knows I would be fine with it so no reason to lie at all.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Latest posts

Forum statistics

Threads
1,236,982
Messages
55,459,265
Members
174,787
Latest member
Freddie556

Share this page

Back
Top