Confessions part 2: Let's Have an Adult Conversation About Adultery

GoshiShun17 said:
This is deep bro. Thank you for sharing this as I can definitely relate.
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Thanks bro. It has been a long journey to finally understand the role of sexuality for me.
It's nice to see that it resonates with someone else.

It's not an easy subject to discuss and people get too judgmental.. like it's a matter of life and death. I would hope they took other super important issues with this severity too.
 
Been married 25 years and with her for almost 29...I've never cheated on her.
 
My buddy cheats on his wife all the time. He makes out with a girl every time we go out to a bar and always has at least 3 chicks he's banging on the side. I asked him if he ever felt bad about it and he said no because it's not because he doesn't love his wife or care about her. He said he just can't picture himself only having sex with one woman for the rest of his life. He said sex has nothing to do with love in his mind.

He's so reckless about it that'll he'll be caught eventually. He shits where he eats and even brings girls over to his place when his wife is gone. He tells them all he's married but they don't care. It'll blow up in his face at some point.
 
fungi said:
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pretty sure ive seen that porno.
 
I’ve been married 12 years and have never cheated. To be honest I’ve seen too many lives ruined due to infidelity to do that to my wife (who is way above my league anyways) or children. I’ve had some close calls, but have thankfully always managed to find the willpower to say no.
 
I'm glad to say that i've never ever cheated on any partner i've been with. Had a couple of opportunities and one in particular was very difficult to walk away from as she was standing naked in front of me! She was n-n-n-n-nineteen and i was about 34 i think. I was clothed btw. We hugged and i really fancied her and liked her as a friend, plus my live-in gf was out of the country for a week.
I recall thinking at the time how it would of felt if my gf came home and admitted she'd been unfaithful, what it would do to our relationship, possibly end it. I didn't want to hurt the woman i loved so i said 'i can't do this', and turned and walked away. Driving home i felt so pleased that i did the right thing by my gf.
 
I’ve never cheated. Not that I don’t think about it a lot. Not so much the cheating part but the fucking women I see part.

But years ago my wife was working at a different job. She was on her boss’s computer and accidentally opened a love letter her boss, who was married, had written to a guy they worked with. Judging by the letter’s content, the two had fucked at least once. She said it was as if it was written by a girl in middle school, though this woman was in her 50s.
 
I don't think I've ever really cheated from memory, but I've fucked a few girls with boyfriends and married women.

I like to fuck around, so it doesn't make sense to get into a long-term relationship. I don't think I'd enjoy having to hide and cover my tracks and constantly worry about getting exposed. I like my life simple.

I think the ultimate scenario would be a wife who likes other girls too and is cool with playing around with them. The problem is the girls I've met who are down for this haven't been wife material and the wife material ones are not down for this.

Ill either stay single or marry if I plan to start a family. If I go the latter route, I might have to just fuck around when traveling
 
I started boning my current partner while still with my ex. That went on for about 4 months before I made the switch and got rid of one.

9 years on, we're still together and I'm boning an 18 year old since last summer lol. The best part is the new chick doesn't even know about the relationship so it will be easy to make the switch this time.

Always be one step ahead.
 
don't ever question
give in to your obsession
bone with aggression
 
From what i understand a simple fact of Life i think to have understood Is some men can handle fuck only same woman for rest of Life, some that can't (me being in latter group)

With shades in the middle of course

Another fact is that communication between group A and B is hard on this topic, as we literally don't understand each other most of times... Specially at the extremes

We pretend to while talking, but usually we don't

SalvadorAllende said:
What I found out is that the impulse of sleeping with other women had to do more with me than her or the relationship as a whole.
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It's almost ever the case i think
It's about freedom and feel like tomorrow morning you can wake up, go outside and encounter some new girl and you can start the game with her
That girl Is not "better" than your GF or going to replace her, Is just undiscovered land worth of explore that day or week

Deny this freedom and feel (at least for some of us) is you will just wake up locked in a room, while rest of the world Is going to live life outside

Be single then
No
I love being in a couple even more than the hunt, but i got only one life to live and i want both

Is illogical or more honestly Is straight asshole, but It Is what It Is lol, we are just crazy monkeys after all
 
Bacco said:
From what i understand a simple fact of Life i think to have understood Is some men can handle fuck only same woman for rest of Life, some that can't (me being in latter group)

With shades in the middle of course

Another fact is that communication between group A and B is hard on this topic, as we literally don't understand each other most of times... Specially at the extremes

We pretend to while talking, but usually we don't


It's almost ever the case i think
It's about freedom and feel like tomorrow morning you can wake up, go outside and encounter some new girl and you can start the game with her
That girl Is not "better" than your GF or going to replace her, Is just undiscovered land worth of explore that day or week

Deny this freedom and feel (at least for some of us) is you will just wake up locked in a room, while rest of the world Is going to live life outside

Be single then
No
I love being in a couple even more than the hunt, but i got only one life to live and i want both

Is illogical or more honestly Is straight asshole, but It Is what It Is lol, we are just crazy monkeys after all
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Well said sir
 
dildos said:
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since im coloured skin i like to see it get railed.
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I'm black. Almost as black as Cannonier. But I have know desire to share a tiny white slut with a bunch of other BBC's. Lol
 
GoshiShun17 said:
I'm black. Almost as black as Cannonier. But I have know desire to share a tiny white slut with a bunch of other BBC's. Lol
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That’s your own business.

And it was only LEGO...
 
fungi said:
A woman can have more than one man.
And still be married...

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Because it shouldn't matter where you're from when love's involved. It's like that movie - "Interracial Hole Stretchers 2" - she was white; they were black. But it didn't matter in the end, did it? Because they were in love...
 
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