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Females work on emotion, not logic. This is logical advice above, which is why I would respectfully disagree with it.Wow, I came in on the last page and this thread seems to have gone oddly wrong at some point. Can't go back to pinpoint as I'm avoiding work I took home. But damn, I saw nothing but rage and ribbing for almost the whole page.
Then suddenly it turned into a delightful... "crush" story...
I say you show up wearing revealing clothing and drop hints that you want her to take you out to a movie or for a drink.
Or invite her to hang out. If she won't do that, there's nothing to see here.
And or make suggestive jokes and say j/k before she can respond. If she shuts that down she just likes you as a friend (actually probably too late for this unless you already have this established as part of the way you joke - but then again, still a bad sign).
Create a moment of truth and if she doesn't go along with it then let it go. Maybe show her a funny shoop thread. If she can't accept your sherdoggery, you have your answer, and the reverse outcome is true as well.
Try the push/pull technique. Give her a compliment, but then give a reason why she might not be right for you to date. This mind fuck can rev her interest.
If she resists or doesn't bite, cool off and try again another day. When you create the right emotional setting for her and she associates you with positive, fun feelings she'll come around.
Don't act perturbed if she doesn't react the way you want. Worst thing you can do and will cause her to cool off to you because you're too needy and available. Push/pull, carefree, fun, confident vibe. Relax, be yourself, nothing she says can disrupt your good feeling.